I Think The Really Insidious Part Of The Whole "I Don't Need To Forgive The People Who Hurt Me" Attitude

I think the really insidious part of the whole "I don't need to forgive the people who hurt me" attitude that's so prominant nowadays, is that it perpetuates the cycle of abuse.

Not every person who does bad things has a tragedy fueling their behavior. But a lot of them do. You can be a victim and also an abuser. Those are not mutually exclusive things. In fact, one of the best ways to become an abuser is to take the pain of the injustice you've experienced and to let it fester inside you. And that is what happens if you don't forgive.

And before anyone tries to tell me that you can't forgive someone because that means letting them to continue hurting you. That's not what forgiveness is. Resuming a relationship with someone who hurt you is Reconciling. Forgiveness is when you choose to let go of the anger and the hate and the bitterness and heal. I know this is an honest misunderstanding, but it's a dangerous one.

You don't have to remain a victim in order to forgive. But if you do not forgive you will become the same as your abuser. That's not a risk, but a fact. The cycle of abuse can be broken but you have to choose to do it.

You have to choose to heal. You owe it others and to yourself.

Some of my favourite DC X DP tropes

Ghost King Danny meets the JL

Baby Ghost King Danny meets the JL

Little Baby Man Ghost King Danny meets the JL

Anything Little Baby Man really (the goofier, the better)

Eldrich Horror Danny summoning

Summoning in general

Anger Management (super cute ship tbh)

Everlasting Trio (with a sprinkle of eldrichery)

Father-daughter Danny and Dani

Team Phantom x Red Robin team up (need more of this tbh)

I'll stop here before this gets too long!

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adinelleggreeo

9 months ago

young people are not going to want to hear this but some clothes should be ironed. you should own an iron and know how to use it. i genuinely see people comment on photos of influencers and celebrities like “wow how does that collared shirt look so good?!” girl it’s an iron. do you think they put a wire in their collar like robert pattinson in twilight

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adinelleggreeo

7 months ago

Daily Doodles- Day 193- 26/10/24

Another one of my girls! I draw them when I don't have any ideas. They're embedded in my muscle memory.

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adinelleggreeo

11 months ago

happy Thursday the 20th

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adinelleggreeo

8 months ago

Daily Doodles- Day 145- 09/09/24

'Eliza Pepperton and Purple Grove Case Files'

That sounds like a really cool book! Unfortunately, it doesn't exist, but this drawing of Ms. Eliza Pepperton does!

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adinelleggreeo

1 year ago

Daily Doodles- Day 17- 04/05/24

Butterfly girl! 🦋🦋🦋

Fell behind again because I was tired (as usual) and forgot I had to do my daily doodle. I knocked out all 3 tonight though, so it's all good!

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adinelleggreeo

11 months ago

Daily Doodles- Day sixty and nine- 23/06/24

This is Chelsea, Tamika's co-worker who tries to help her find info on her superpowers.

This isn't her final design, but close to what I have in mind for her.

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Edit: apparently the numeral sixty and nine are under NSFW on Tumblr, so this post wasn't appearing in the tags. Any posts with this numeral shall have it written in words.

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adinelleggreeo

7 months ago

Daily Doodles- Day 185- 18/10/24

Kinda geometric hair!

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adinelleggreeo

9 months ago