The Tragedy Of Rhaenyra And Alicent Is That They Cannot Ever Truly See The Other Without Destroying The

Idk if this is real or I’m just going crazy from sleep deprivation, but am I the only one that thought in the most two recent episodes Rhaenyra and Alicent were being paralleled in their internalized misogyny? (Not a hate post, I love both of them and I think it’s impossible NOT to have internalized misogyny in that setting. Just talking about something I noticed.)

Like in episode two we see Alicent having Helaena do the whole political funeral thing, and it’s so obvious that before, during, and after it, Alicent sees herself in Helaena. The whole thing is like Alicent reliving her earliest days as Queen all over again where not only was she also just a political pawn for the men in her life, but also where her biggest fear started. This fear being something happening to the kids she was forced to have. While the political pawn thing is majorly important too to the generational misogyny discussion, I think the more major relation that registers within Alicent’s brain is the fear of her children dying, and her consciously forcing Helaena to suffer through an extended version of that pain, and it is what will be relevant later in my post. Keep that in mind.

Similarly, in episode three, we see Rhaenyra narrowing Rhaena down to nothing more than an idea of motherhood. Rhaenyra basically tells Rhaena that her main purpose in the war is to take care of her children, even though Rhaena is less than enthusiastic about it. Even before I made the distinction that I make in this post, this whole scene struck out as odd to me, because my first thought was “teenage Rhaenyra would have hated to be told this,” yet Rhaenyra didn’t seem to care about Rhaena’s feelings at all. And then I realized that was the point. Sure, Rhaenyra’s fear of motherhood surrounded around childbirth mainly, but still, her greatest fear had been motherhood for most of her life, specifically being forced to mother children she didn’t want, and yet she forced it onto Rhaena without a second thought.

So. Alicent’s greatest fear, suffering the loss of a child, befell Helaena, and instead of comforting her in her time of need, Alicent furthered her daughter’s pain. Rhaenyra’s greatest fear, being forced into motherhood, was easy for her to force onto another young girl. It’s disturbing, and shocking, and upsetting, but it’s such a good decision for their characters. It shows how easily women can forget their girlhood fears when they come into more power, contributing to the misogyny around them. But that’s not all. Because then I realized something else.

Despite the idea haunting her for almost her entire life, Alicent never had to suffer the loss of a child. But Rhaenyra did.

And in the end, Rhaenyra did get to choose who the father of her children was, and when she had them. But Alicent didn’t.

They lived each other’s worst fears. It adds another layer of tragedy to them, because it would have been so easy for them to understand each other, their fears and grievances matching perfectly, but they never really got the chance because of how they viewed the other as having caused their issues in the first place. And even later, they get another chance to understand both themselves and each other through their daughters, but it makes no difference.

None of them will ever win, because they don’t help each other. Everyone complaining that “so-and-so” is better than “this character” because “so-and-so” is a true feminist and “this character isn’t” doesn’t understand the point of the show.

The point is that they won’t help their mothers, they won’t help their best friends, and they won’t help their daughters. If you think any of the men in House Of The Dragon are an ideal image of feminism…. I don’t even know how you’re on my page in the first place. And all the women in the show are only looking out for their own best interests. Which is totally fair for the time period theyre in, and I would probably do the same. But it all goes to show that they could’ve been so much stronger if they all stood together.

"ANGEL", he calls me

does he know that i'm falling from a precipice that i tripped off long ago?

"DEVIL", you call me

but seem to be enjoying the fruits of my labour that came to me too young

how could anyone NOT expect byler to be canon after mike’s entire arc this season was about being unable to tell his gf he loves her while being trapped in a car for days with his best friend whose entire arc is about being in love with mike. like???

i physically can not comprehend why ppl like gabe like hes not hot, hes musty, he has a receding hairline, hes emotionally abusive and neglectful to his child what are the qualities that ur seeing in this man like please elaborate

Kids when they’re offered a prize for drawing and their intrinsically motivation leaves their bodies.

Artist fae.

happy pride to all the gay people who believe in lifetime committment

misty hate feels like a personal attack like. "oh but she broke the black box!! shes the reason theyre stuck there" GOOD now you have a show to watch!! lets all thank misty

ALICENT HIGHTOWER WOULD LOVE THE BARBIE MOVIE!!!!!!!!!

barbicent !

SOBBING OMG U GUYS R SO SMART 😭

As much as Will’s monologue in the van is his own feelings, it’s also true for El. Except he just got the wrong person. Instead of Mike: Max is El’s heart.

Because see, without heart, we’d all fall apart. 

Even El. Especially El.

These past few months she’s been so lost without you.

It’s just, she’s so different from other people and… when you’re different… sometimes… you feel like a mistake. 

But you make her feel like she’s not a mistake at all. 

Like she’s better for being different.

And that gives her the courage to fight on.

So yeah – El needs you. And she always will. 

“You’re the heart.” 

And it’s Will literally painting a heart on Mike’s D&D character armor.

And it’s El literally doing everything she can to keep Max’s heart beating. 

The Luca effect