“Sometimes suffering is just suffering. It doesnt make you stronger. It doesnt build character. It only hurts.”
— Kate Jacobs; Comfort Food
“We shouldn’t be doing this.” continues to do it
Girls who act innocently, like they are not perverted, are so cute. The innocent little angel who says she just wants kisses and cuddles and to be treated like a princess.
Remind me again who loves to be used like a toy, be degraded, tossed around, begging to have all their holes filled, and be made to cry because they just can't take any more?
• Using your safeword does not make you a bad sub.
• Not enjoying a certain act (i.e. tying up, pain play, etc) does not make you a bad sub.
• Not sharing the same kinks as your dom(s) does not make you a bad sub.
• Asserting your wants, needs and/or triggers does not make you a bad sub.
• Stopping a scene entirely and not wanting to continue does not make you a bad sub.
Bdsm is supposed to be fun. You can stop or alter things to suit your comfort. It’s ok to do this.
Any dom that tells you otherwise is a bad dom.