You have a complex relationship with your body and need to keep some/all of your clothes on during sex?
That's okay, what you're wearing looks good on you.
You need to take a lot of breaks doing anything intimate because you're easily overwhelmed?
I understand, I'm just happy to be here with you.
You're on medication that impacts your libido/makes reaching orgasm really difficult?
No pressure, tell me what feels good for you, and if you get frustrated we can do something else together.
Sex isn't going to look the same for everybody and that's fine, that's normal.
Sometimes you don't orgasm, sometimes you need to stop because your mood changes out of nowhere, sometimes you get really self conscious and need accommodations to take your mind off of it.
People are too complex for everybody to go about it the same, just keep doing what feels best for you, regardless of how different it may seem from other people's experiences.
i love you femmes who work blue collar jobs. i love you femmes who work minimum wage gigs. i love you femmes who do manual labour and heavy lifting for a living. i love you femmes who have rough hands and dirt-caked nails. i love you femmes who cannot afford to dress up every day, who trade in their loveliest dresses for a poorly-fitting uniform every time they clock in. femmes who have to tone down their makeup and take off their favourite earrings because it's just not practical for work. i love you femmes even if you cannot present as yourself, especially if you cannot present as yourself, at work.
I hate how easy Lush cosmetics gets my ass. . Their gay ass employees touch me and I’m spending a hundo bucks
femmes when their butch is away and they can't physically be with them
(it's me i'm femmes)
you know you're dating an Acts of Service love language butch when they've gone radio silent and you Instantly Know that they're Up to Something (/pos)
hate how almost every portrayal of a lesbian on mainstream tv is like literally just a straight woman who dates women. the writers clearly don’t care to take Any considerations into lesbian/lgbt culture or what our lives/dating is rly like. like even apart from them all being pretty feminine conventionally attractive white women in their thirties, they are literally always the straightest women you could possibly imagine. what’s the opposite of dykery. The utter dykelessness of these women
(some of) my favorite ways to make a butch short circuit 💕
letting out a faint little whimper when they kiss you
hooking your fingers in their belt loops and tugging towards you (or pulling them in by the lapel/tie)
tracing the outline of their tattoos with one sharp nail
finding reasons to bend over so your ass brushes against their bulge when they walk past you
saying “thank you Daddy” quietly and so sweetly when they do something nice in public
running your hand from their wrist to their bicep then sighing softly while feeling up their muscles
sending them a slutty picture while out with friends so they know what’s theirs later
“wow your hands are so big” or “gosh you’re strong”
riling butches up is my favorite hobby 💕
feel like the lesbians that arent on football (soccer) twitter need to know that the england womens captain has bagged miss usa
Miss Rarity’s prepared for Lunar New Year. 🐲
asian femme posting. early 20's. i reblog 18+, minors please dni!
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