Allah (سبحانه وتعالى) said,
"Then your hearts became hardened after that, being like stones or even harder..."
[سورة البقرة (٢) : ٧٤]
Al Baghawī (رحمه الله) said,
وإنما لم يشبهها بالحديد مع أنه أصلب من الحجارة, لأن الحديد قابل اللين, فإنه يلين بانار [...] والحجارة لا تلين قط
"and Indeed He [Allah] did not liken it [i.e, the hardening of the hearts] to Iron even though it is harder than stones, because Iron is susceptible to softness [i.e, structural change] For Indeed, it softens with fire [...] and stones do not soften ever."
[معالم التنزيل في تفسير القرآن (تفسير البغوي)]
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إن موسى (عليه السلام) كان يقول في دعائه
Indeed Mūsā (عليه السلام) used to say from his supplications
اللَّهُمَّ لَيِّنْ قَلْبِي بِالتَّوْبَةِ، وَلَا تَجْعَلْ قَلْبِي قَاسِيًا كَالْحَجَرِ
"O' Allah soften my heart with tawbah [repentance] and do not make my heart hard like a stone."
[كتاب الزهد لأحمد بن حنبل]
These are things I personally need/recommend to all my fellow uni people! This can also go for high schoolers :)
1. A pack of pastel highlighters (or 2)
2. Good gel ink pens (Papermate Inkjoy, FIOVER .5mm, Sharpie S Gel, etc)
3. White out pens
4. Mechanical pencils (of course)
1. Transparent sticky notes/ pastel sticky notes
2. Annotation tabs
3. 5 subject college ruled notebooks (cute colors)
4. Yearly planner (stay organized honey)
5. Cute notecards for studying
6. Personal white board and markers
7. Desktop planner (with cute stickers that are pink of course)
8. Journal
9. Budget planner
1. Portable tap light thing
2. Organizers
3. Tote bag
4. Laptop
5. HDMI cord & laptop charging cord
6. Pencil case (pink <3)
7. Tape
8. Scissors
9. Paper clips & thumb tacks
10. Calculator
11. Ruler
12. Rubber bands
13. Desk organizer
14. Stapler & staples
Al Ḥasan Al Baṣri (رحمه الله) said,
يا ابن آدم! كيف يرق قلبك وإنما همتك في آخر السورة
O son of Adam, how can your heart be softened when your only concern is reaching the end of your surah?
[الخلاصة في تدبر القرآن الكريم]
Hello! This is the Become Your Best Version Before 2025 masterlist. It’s a collection of all the posts from the series, gathered in one place to make it easier for you to access and follow along.
I hope you find it inspiring and helpful as you work towards becoming the best version of yourself!
Day 1: What Does Becoming Your Best Version Mean
Day 2: Understanding Yourself / Self-assessment
Day 3: Identifying Limiting Beliefs
Day 4: Identifying Your Core Values
Day 5: Setting SMART Goals That Actually Stick
Day 6: Creating Your Personal Mission Statement
Day 7: Building Better Habits
Day 8: Mastering Time Management
Day 9: Auditing Your Relationships
Day 10: Mastering Your Emotions
Day 11: Taking Care of Your Body
Day 12: Stress Management
Day 13: Financial Planning and Budgeting
Day 14: Career and Purpose
Day 15: The Power of Self-Talk
Day 16: Digital Detox and Mindful Living
Day 17: Decluttering Your Life
Day 18: Creating Healthy Boundaries
Day 19: Self-Care Rituals That Actually Stick
Day 20: Building Confidence
Day 21: Overcoming Fear & Self-Doubt
Day 22: Developing New Skills
Day 23: Personal Style & Self-Presentation
Day 24: Setting Up Progress Tracking Systems
Day 25: Designing Your Accountability Plan
Day 26: Personal Development Tools and Resources
Day 27: Hobbies & Passion Projects
Day 28: How to Keep Yourself Motivated
Day 29: Prioritizing Yourself and Your Needs
Day 30: Creating Your Vision for 2025
Day 31: The Beginning of Your Best Year Yet
*** Divider Credit: @thecutestgrotto ***
Practice Self Care First
قال الإمام ابن قدامة رحمه الله تعالى:
« إيَّاكَ أن تَشتَغِلَ بِمَا يُصلِحُ غَيرَكَ قَبلَ إصلَاحِ نَفسِك »
"مِنهَاجُ القَاصِدِين" || (ص: ٢٢).
Imam Ibn Qadamah said (May Allah Ta Ala have mercy upon him), “Don’t get busy in what fixes the affairs for others before you fix yourself.
Minhaj Al Qasiddin 22
Don't make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you're being disrespected.
“I just want to be with someone who doesn’t disappear when love gets tough.”
— j. iron word
(The Messenger ﷺ said): “Whoever read a letter from the Book of Allah then he will receive a reward for it and every good reward is multiplied by ten the like of it, “من قرأ حرفا من كتاب الله فله به حسنة، والحسنة بعشر أمثالها I do not say that ‘Alif, Laam, Meem’ is a ḥarf (ie: letter) لا أقول: {الم} حرف but Alif is a ḥarf, ولكن: ألف حرف and Lām is a ḥarf ولام حرف and Mīm is a ḥarf.” وميم حرف”. Ṣaḥīḥ; On the authority of Ibn Masʿūd. Sharḥ al-Ṭaḥāwīyyah p. 158, al-Mishkāt #2137. (صحيح) [تخ ت ك] عن ابن مسعود. شرح الطحاوية 158، المشكاة 2137. Muḥammad Nāṣir ʾl-Dīn al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ al-Jāmiʿ al-Ṣaġīr 2/1103 #6469 محمد ناصر الدين الألباني، صحيح الجامع الصغير وزيادته ٢/١١٠٣ #٦٤٦٩ https://shamela.ws/book/10757/1037 @ilmtest [https://t.me/ilmtest]