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Your laugh is cute

Thank you! Your compliment is cuter.

Merry Christmas, ya filthy animals! & a happy new year! 🎄❤️✨☃️

I don't wanna talk about it, but here's a few old pictures of me growing up:

~ Source: (IG) @Thistleandopal 🍁🎂

Have you ever thought abt donating your hair? It‘s gorgeous. Happy Indigenous people‘s day and happy Canadian Thanksgiving! 🇺🇲🇨🇦🇺🇲🇨🇦🇺🇲🇨🇦

Lmao, your question made me think of Damian from Mean Girls when he complimented Cady's hair, "Is that your natural hair color? It's gorgeous."

But yeah! I do try to donate my hair at least once a year, it's pretty much the only reason I ever grow it out so long. I'm Canadian American, I live in the U.S so it's not Thanksgiving for me yet, but nonetheless thank you! ❤️💙

Why were you so mad otp this morning? 🙁😯

I wasn't mad at you or Tarrant, sorry if I came off that way. Yasmin & I went out for breakfast this morning then went to get gas, some African dude at the gas station register was snapping his fingers at her to get her attention for something (I think our car was blocking the gas truck & he wanted her to move it) & addressed her as "girl", he just had this condescending attitude that didn't sit well with me. So I walked over & snapped my fingers in his face & told him not to snap his fucking fingers at her or call her "girl" cause that shit is mad annoying & rude, & he was like, "oh, okay sorry". Like you know how to fucking use your mouth & say "excuse me, miss" if you wanted her attention, she's not a fucking kid or an animal that responds to noises. I could tell he's one of those pricks who think that just because they're male they're the superior gender & are used to antagonizing women & nobody ever got in his ass about it. Idk how he treated people in Africa but we don't snap our fucking fingers at people here. This ain't the medieval era when men clapped at female servants & ordered them around & shit. Men feel comfortable asf disrespecting women nowadays, especially black women, & that shit ain't it. 🙄 Doing shit like that to my fiancee, mom or sister will get you fucked up & your fingers broken, on God. He better quickly learn to keep them bitches to himself. That lil weak ass tantrum was completely unnecessary & it almost got his goofy ass choked the fuck out.

Selfie Beach Day☁️

May winter bring you peace, rebirth & happiness ~

Hi So someone in my family just told me that I gained weight (( as if I didn't already know that and feel super insecure about it 🙄🙄)) and it just ruined my day tbh like my feelings are hurt and I'm mad af bc I feel fat and having it pointed out was completely unnecessary and ironically my weight gain was pointed by someone who's damn near 300 pounds. I hate people and my family really ain't shit sometimes I swear. Sorry I just needed to vent I hope you're ok with it, I'm not asking for you to solve my problem I just know you're the only nice blogger I follow. Everyone else is weird af about people venting. But yeah I'm really upset now and I was about to eat but I lost my appetite. It's a reason I gained weight, my family is basically homeless living in our car rn bc of the pandemic and fast food is all we can afford so it's not like I'm just out here being a fat bitch, I'm relatively skinny but I hate having my weight gain pointed out like wtf 😒

Oh wow, okay this is a lot to take in. I'm okay with you guys venting, as long as you understand that I'm not a therapist & I don't have the answer to every question/problem. As far as this situation goes, whoever pointed out your weight gain was incredibly rude, hypocritical & insensitive, & you have every right to be upset. No one likes having an insecurity pointed out. The next time they do that you should point out that they're on the verge of 300lbs & see how they feel (sometimes you gotta give people a taste of their own medicine for them to realize how fucked up they're being). They also need to be more self aware & realize that pointing things out like that could affect someone's mental health & cause/trigger an ED. I'm sure you're beautiful. Please remember though that it's an insecurity - insecurities are not a reflection of who you are, they are simply negative emotions, & a lot (I mean a lot) of people have gained weight during the pandemic, you're definitely not alone. Even my sister has, lol. But it looks good on her & we don't make her feel like shit for it. If they do it again, call them out on it. Keep them in check, don't let people disrespect you. Nobody asked for their opinion of your body. I'm really sorry about your living situation though, if you were to set up a GoFundMe or something I'd be happy to donate & share! All the best to you, dear! Stay safe. 💛☺️♥️

Since you like chocolate so much how do you feel about dating a black woman? We got all the chocolate you need babyboy 😏😏😏😏

Oh my goodness. Are you trying to seduce me by using my love for chocolate against me?

How wicked. I do like rich flavors. You might be in luck, if you are in fact a woman.

Or did you mean chocolate as in skin color? Because in the case of dating I would hope that your personality is just as rich and your love is just as sweet.