The deeply worrying thing about catcalling is that the catcaller must know that their target isn’t going to turn around and fall in to their arms pleading ‘oh dear my please have sex with me here and now’. A lot of the time they know that. Often they don’t do it for that, someone who shouts ‘nice tits’ from a van isn’t trying to date you. They’re trying to humiliate you, reinforce their dominance over you; it’s an exercise of male power. It’s a way of communicating ‘I can say and do whatever I want to you, no matter how inappropriate or how uncomfortable it makes you feel, and you can’t do anything about it.’ Catcalling is not a compliment, it’s a threat.
You want to make my dreams come true? This is my dream.
Jackson and April + track record in hotels
❤️ this poem by Anaïs Nin:
“Y’all have no idea how much work we both put into telling these stories authentically for you. The late nights in parking lots and stages and texts with our amazing writers, the run throughs, rehearsals and rewrites. The patience, joy, frustration and tears. You didn’t always love us. Some things take time, effort and trust. #Japril will last forever for a reason. #ThankYouSarahDrew” - Jesse Williams
- Just thinking about our track record in hotels. - What about it?
I don’t know how to do it, I don’t know how to shut it off. Shut what off? How I feel about her… I don’t even know if I want to.
And I’m done with grey’s. Series finale was 13x16. Bey. I’m not watching this shit ever again. Ever.
the missing link chapter 8 is here
read from the beginning here