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It’s mental health awareness month! How to support someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder.

If they disclose to you that they have DID:

DO:

• Accept them. Tell them that you still respect and care for them.

• Tell them that you are there if they need your help.

• Tell them to let you know if there are any triggers that are important for you to know. If they choose to tell you any, be patient and understanding. Listen attentively.

Helpful things to say or ask:

• “Is there anything you need me to do to make sure you feel safe in our relationship?

• “If you want to tell me more about it, I am here to listen.”

• “If there are any triggers you think I should be aware of, please let me know.”

• “I’m here if you need help with anything.”

• “I still love you and you are still my friend/family/partner.”

DON’T:

• Ask if they are dangerous or if they are going to harm you.

• Ask them what their trauma is.

• Call them crazy.

• Suggest that their mental illness is caused by supernatural or pseudoscientific means. (AKA, NEVER suggest that someone is possessed or haunted.)

• Bombard them with questions.

• Demand proof.

• Force then to switch as evidence.

• React in an unkind or rude way.

• Minimize or invalidate them.

• Tell them DID isn’t real.

• Deny their existence or refuse to call their alters by their names.

• Demand any answers from them.

Unhelpful things to say or ask:

• “I’ve known you for [span of time]. I would have noticed if you had it.”

• “It’s fine as long as you aren’t going to murder me.”

• “What’s your trauma? Did [traumatic event] happen to you?”

• “Isn’t that really rare? How could you have it?”

• “You had an easy childhood so there’s no way.”

• “You don’t know what ‘hard’ is.” “You were lucky to have the childhood you had.”

• “I just don’t get why you’re doing this to me.”

• “Can you imagine how hard this is for me?”

• “Tell me your triggers.”

If they’re switching or dissociating:

DO:

• Be patient with them.

• Tell them that it’s okay, and to take their time.

• Politely ask who’s fronting.

• Reintroduce yourself, as if a new person just walked into the room.

• Fill them in if they are unaware of what is going on.

DON’T:

• Snap or clap in their face.

• Express that you only want to interact with the previously fronting alter.

• Raise your voice, or try to force them to “snap out of” their dissociation.

• Ask if they are going to harm you, or if they are “evil”.

• Tell them “they should know what’s happening”, or refuse to fill them in on what is happening.

• Accuse or blame them for not being a good friend, not listening, or dissociating. 

DID is a highly stigmatized disorder. People fear disclosing this disorder to their loved ones, because their safety could be compromised. They trusted you enough to tell you. It is your job to create a space of love, acceptance, and respect for them.

🖤 Delphine

I honestly feel like if someone calls a member of a system an "alternate personality" I should be allowed to hit them. If someone calls me by the host's name when they know its me, that bitch is going down.

- Dallas

Got kicked out of the Van der Linde gang for smacking Dutch's tits and being a general nuisance.

- Blurry

Tumblr didnt save my last add on but behold!

The guy!

Next project will be working on some clothes for him :) thatll be a whole other post

Frankly, the hardest part about this “challenge” was the skin colour. I had several different combinations I kept going back and forth on, until I eventually decided on #775B59 with accents of #32161F. I originally wanted to make him an unnatural colour, like green or pink, but I went with more muted and reddish colours, cause that’s what looked the best in my opinion. The rest of the palette just built from there.

Combining all my favourite charcter design traits into one mf, I’ll keep yall updated

“My child is fine” ma’am your child kins a cape.

-Nori

I totally see what you mean! I can see Mephala as being abard, that totally fits with their whole thing. Also with Jyggalag being a paladin. Paladins are usually disciplined and order is their whole thing. And yeah, i can see Boethiah as a rogue, I had based the barbarian idea off of the atmosphere of the cult surrounding Boethiah, with the whole fighter circle and stuffs. I really appreciate this, it was helpful!

Azura: Sorceress/Warlock Boethoah: Barbarian Clavicus Vile: Bard Hermaeus Mora: Wizard Hircine: Druid Jyggalag: Fighter Malacath: Barbarian Mehrunes Dagon: Barbarian Mephala: Monk Meridia: Cleric Molag Bal: Barbarian Namira: Monk Nocturnal: Rogue Peryite: Sanguine: Bard Sheogorath: Sorceror Vaermina: Monk So I’m thinking about making D&D characters for the Daedric Princes. Yay or nay? Feel free to suggest alternate classes. Also, I’m planning on making some for the Divines so feel free to suggest some for them as well.

Please consider commissioning me!

Etsy

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Ah, an organizational post. Fucking finally.

Goin back thru my posts and actually tagging them and shit, might as well throw an intro in as well.

Hi! I’m Nori, but I will take literally any of the following

Neo

Wido

Bain

Michael

Gord0

Octavius

Okay listen I’m transmasc and My Bitchass (tm) will look at literally any character and go “Your name and Gender. Give them.”

This blog is sort of an outlet for my hyperfixations but I’m making an executive decision to make this mainly a Payday blog because goddammit I care about these criminals.

I reblog from @its-spelt-apocrypha

Things will be tagged by fandom and what kind of post they are (i.e. shitpost and what have you)

Posts tagged with “stay safe” is stuff like su*cide prevention, mental health resources, self-defense, and other similar stuff

I also have several alt accounts for various reasons

@oc-outlet exactly how it sounds, rant blog about my ocs

@dustserversystem system blog for me and my headmates

There’s a few more but they are currently wips so yeah.

@shifted-nights-au sideblog for my FNaF au

@its-spelt-sheogorath nsfw writing stuff

If I catch you being a piece of shit in my endless eldritch library I will dropkick you so fast. Otherwise, nice to meet you!

Suomi, Finland, 1976. Waylo was born.

In the year 1995, he finds himself in Peräjärvi, Finland. With his parents out of town for who knows how long, our intrepid antihero Waylo Schmidtt is left to care for himself. He’s got sewer wells to pump, a Satsuma to build, and a town to burn to the goddamn ground.

The people of Peräjärvi, however, have grown used to Waylo’s antics. From the local store owner to the town drunkard, Waylo has roots everywhere; which means whether they want it or not, the people of Peräjärvi are always, somehow, involved. These are their experiences.

Kakyion and Tommy: *makes a tumblr for the system to use*

Kakyion and Tommy: *sets it on the floor.*

Me: hey ur gonnaa use that, yeah?

Kakyion and Tommy:.........

Kakyion and Tommy: *runs.*

- Nori

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