All Of The Above

Not to be pornographic but you should lay your head on my chest so I can slowly play with your hair and scratch your head and caress your neck until all your muscles relax then I'll kiss your forehead

Mhm, those were the stuffies, I named HoneyBun, Pastella, and Jewel off the top of my head, they each had something that kinda fit the names, they didn't have names till yesterday though. Jewel has a lil diamond shape on her head, Pastella is pastel colors, and HoneyBun is a bunny and she's sweet so she reminded me of Honey. I don't remember my bear's old name but I'll probably call him Suga(r) because he reminds me of brown sugar. He's a cross dressing bear.

I have some stuffies you might find cute! I thought of you cause one of them is a bun bun. (I also have 2 cows and a bear ^OwO^)

oh!! were they the ones on your posts? ໒₍´˶> ⩊ <˶ ⑅ ₎ྀི১!!! the bun is so cute!! her ears r so cute in a little ponytail!! I did that to Bonnie once! >:3

ty for sharing 💗

Aftercare

I’ve organized some of the things I need from aftercare (in person or long distance) into 4 components, and thought it could be helpful for others too! I’ve put some examples for each, but it will of course look different for everyone.

1. Physical Care/Needs -

Wiping away tears

Helping up from floor

Getting a warm towel

Soothing bruises

Getting a glass of water

2. Physical Comfort/Affection -

Gentle kisses and hugs

Holding eachother tight

Breathing with eachother

Cuddling and/or napping together

Brushing fingers through hair

3. Scene Validation -

“That was so fun/sexy”

“That felt so good when you ____”

“You were such a good ____ for me”

“I love the bruises/marks you gave me”

“Thank you for (carrying out some fantasy) with me”

4. Human Affirmations -

“I love you; I care about you”

“I’m so grateful to have you in my life”

“I always have a great time when I’m with you”

“You’re a wonderful/kind/etc person”

Mentioning a non-sexual part of your relationship that you like, or reiterating that you value eachother as more than just a sub/dom(me)

I think that this can work whether you have a deeper connection or a more casual play partner! I always feel best when all of these components are covered during aftercare.

These things can obv be done in person, and I think it’s also really important to give this kind of care when you’re long distance, even if it’s just through words after sexting… for example-

“When we were done, I would help you up and wipe away your tears, bring you a warm towel and make sure you’re ok. Then I’d love to cuddle, with your head on my chest, and give you forehead kisses while telling you how good you made me feel and how wonderful of a person I think you are.”

Thanks for reading! Be safe everyone 💕💕

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Hickies on the titties but you can't forget the thighs too 🥺💕💕

Hickies on the titties

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