here have a second video of the ones that missed the cut for part one
I made a mossy stone path border!
Ahhhhhhhh
Friend: *comes to me with romantic relationship problems*
Aro/ace me: *tries to remember everything i have learnt about relationships from fiction and tries to give useful advice*
Black roses commish
We heard there are new people still coming! Poor souls, that’s gonna be a painful journey, but trust me, I would not change it for anything else!
This list is my personal STEREK STARTER KIT/STEREK MUST READ LIST, so I hope you will enjoy it! (most of the links are to our recs, where you can find more details and notes ;))
The first thing I always recommend new people in fandom is Important Things by suzvoy (which was my first Sterek fic and I love it to bits and pieces) and it works like a charm every time!
Then you just have to read (Sacred) In the Ordinary by idyll because of reasons.
Best Harry Potter AU every fandom needs? I’m sure you will just love Untamed by rosepetals42.
The happy making ones you can read over and over again:
Fireman Derek’s Crazy Pie [Cheeseburger Baby] by owlpostagain
DILF by twentysomething
Daddy Do’s by bookgodess15
Cupboard Love by mklutz
This is not even a fic, but you have to see it - Needs More Sparkly Pens by mm_coconut
Some more serious fics, which I love forever:
[Not!Fic] Random Craigslist Missed Connections Derek/Stiles Not!Fic of Doom by fire_juggler
oh what a shame by omelet
Sense of Home by siny
the broken radio is playing suicide by decideophobia
when the highway takes me by paxlux
The one that will make you love Allison, if you don’t already - You Know What I Mean by stilinskisparkles
And this one make you love Peter for sure - The More Things Change by KouriArashi
The original ones with amazing plots:
There’s Monsters At Home by calrissian18
What You Can’t See by darkmagess
Courage Through Fear by Pookaseraph
Keep reading
Only you can decide if you want to come out. Personally I don't foresee myself coming out to my parents unless my aromatism becomes an issue with them. But at 27 they haven't really pushed the issue of my complete lack of relationships. I have told a few friends but no one has really given me grief. I don't make a big deal of sexuality irl.
no ones paying attention to me anyways so i doubt people will answer me but?? are u supposed to tell people ur asexual?? or like come out to ur parents as asexual?? or no one care?? idk!! or what about demisexual too??
squeezy-cheez The greatest factor for me has been the consistency of my experience. I spent years deeply confused about what I was feeling. At first I thought I was a late bloomer. Then I thought I was homosexual, because I think a lot of women are beautiful. Then I thought I was straight, because men are gorgeous. But during conversations about sex I was firmly not interested. I've repeated my disinterest over and over again in conversations and journaling through the years. And this was long before I knew and used the term asexual. I was talking with my cousin over coffee one night. We were discussing her new boyfriend and so forth. I confessed that I was a virgin; she was a little shocked and asked why. I told her I wasn't interested. She said that maybe I was asexual, it was something that had come up in her human sexuality course. I remember the next day I sat down and researched asexuality. I cried. No label has ever given me so much relief. This thing I was internally agonizing over for years had a name. I don't really think about sex on my own, the subject typically has to be brought to my attention. When the conversation does get going I feel so abnormal and uncomfortable. I feel broken almost every time. I struggle all the time with who I am. I worried, like you, that I was making it all up in my head. But the history of my experience is there. And most importantly, when I identified as asexual nothing about my experiencs changed, except that nowadays I am on average happier.
I'm 27 and finally found out I'm different...not broken, go figure
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