You Did Not Deserve To Be Sexually Harassed. This Is True No Matter What You Wear, How You Look, How

Part of the problem is when you become overwhelmed and burnt out; making any decisions isn’t what helps. People forget that when you get to a place of burn out. The last thing your mind wants to do is make more decisions. It’s burn out, it just wants to rest and not have to constantly choose this or that.

“Ignoring isn’t the same as ignorance, you have to work at it.” Margaret Atwood, The Handmaid’s Tale

“It may be that when we no longer know what to do, we have come to our real work.” — Wendell Berry

Theodor von Hörmann - Forest path (ca. 1878-1880)

THIS

“You’re so calm during conflict.”

No babe, that’s dissociation. We all bring our talents to the table...

To Report or Not To Report...that is the eternal flaming highway wreck of a question.

Some things you carry.

Some things carry you.

Ba Ghi Ri E De, Pueblo Indian woman carrying a water pot on her head. - Porter - 1907

born in the wrong skin, not wrong for me. wrong for them. targets, not flesh.

You don’t need to prove it

was

serious enough.

If it made you feel unsafe, disrespected, or humiliated

that’s serious...that’s enough.