I Invited This Guy I Was Talking To, (who Im Sure Fetishizes Trans Men Since He Said How Hed Prefer Me

i cannot believe i had to explain to a friend that the tiktok ban was a ploy to make our generation like tr*mp more. like i was genuinely disappointed in here for falling for the easiest propaganda ever

when she texted me to tell me it got banned, she was basically upset about her edits and stuff being lost. i had to explain to here that the ban wasnt going to stick because it was a ploy to make our generation like him better. she then was saying how he better save it and shit. she was probably joking but damn cannot believe i had to lay it out for her

genuine disappointment in her bro 😭

Can't believe they banned tiktok for a couple hours just so they could unban it and encourage everyone to put Trump's dick right up their assholes and moan about it

Feeling extremely disappointed in the community response to Trump's gender order regarding X gender markers on documents. Can y'all quit with the victim-blaming and "I'm so glad I don't have an X gender marker, I knew it was a bad idea" statements for two seconds to support those of us who are targeted by this?

I have X on all of my documents. Birth certificate, passport, ID, you name it I have an X on it. I'm intersex & trans. I'm percieved as ambiguous 100% of the time and I can't pass for shit. Stealth is not an option for me, I am visibly intersex/trans no matter what.

Having either M or F on my documents wasn't any more feasible than having an X on everything at the time I got my documents. Which I had to work my ass off to get, by the way, because I was homeless and had no documents and I needed to obtain everything from scratch, which of course is made as hard as possible to do. (How do you provide proof of identity without any identity documents? How do you provide proof of address without an address? How do you pay for any of this when you can't even afford your own groceries and you get all your needs met through local mutual aid? How do you drop anything off or attend interviews or court without transportation?)

Goddamn right I was getting an X on my documents after having to go through hell to obtain them. If I had to work that hard for them, my documents were going to be how I wanted them.

Now I'm being told the president is trying to invalidate my documents, that depending on how things go I may be held if I try to go anywhere due to my passport having an X gender marker, that we don't know the ways this will be enforced and whether I will still be able to use my documents or not, and my trans community is saying it's actually my own fault for having an X gender marker in the first place and that I was just begging to be discriminated against by having one.

I am in a very vulnerable position and I should be supported by my own community when anti-trans anti-intersex discrimination targets me and people I care about. Y'all are dropping the ball and abandoning your siblings when we need each other most.

Also, for the record, I believe that no documentation should have gender markers. However, the US requires gender markers on documentation at the moment and that fucking sucks. It seems like this will be the case for the foreseeable future. The way people have been saying "nobody should get an X gender marker because gender markers shouldn't exist" just feels very "your strategy pales in comparison to my strategy, firebombing a Walmart" and then not firebombing a Walmart. While we can and should work towards gender markers not existing in the future, people with X gender markers exist right now and maybe y'all should support us instead of constantly throwing us under the bus.

Daily reminder that :

-Validating a trans person's manhood only when you want to exclude them from certain communities is not being a trans ally.

-Validating a trans person's manhood only when you want to make them seen inherently predatory towards women is not being a trans ally.

-Validating a trans person's manhood only when you want to make comments such as ''eww...why would you want to be a man...?'' or ''k!ll all men,including trans men'' is not being a trans ally.

-Validating a trans person's manhood only when you want to talk about how they inherently have ''male privileges'' over women is not being a trans ally.

-Validating a trans person's manhood only when you want to exclude them from conversations about misogyny or reproductive rights is not being a trans ally.

not to sound desperate but

PLEASE PLEASSSSSREEE I NEED A BOYFRIEND PLEASSEE OH M YGOD PLESSE I WANT A BOYFRIEND SOCBADLY I NEED INE PLEASEEE GIVE ME A MAN PLEASSEEE I NEED A BOYFRIEND SO BADLY

I SAID THAT THEY WERE GOING TO GO AFTER AO3 TOO, AND SOME OF Y'ALL FUCKERS OVER ON REDDIT SAID I WAS OVERREACTING AND FEAR-MONGERING. FUCK YOU, I WAS RIGHT. AND FUCK YOU DUMBASS WHITE WOMEN THAT VOTED TRUMP AND SAID "Well I thought we liked morally ambiguous men so..." GO FUCK YOURSELVES.

And I KNOW that seems childish to be focusing on this but I feel SO FUCKING VINDICATED because I was talking about this months prior about how they WANT to ban sexually explicit material because they WANT TO SILENCE, CRIMINALIZE AND MAKE OUT MARGINALIZED GROUPS TO BE SEXUAL DEVIANTS. AND I WAS TOLD THAT I WAS FEAR-MONGERING.

I HATE, HATE HATE, how I was gaslit into believing that bullshit >:(

And guess what, you can't download your fav ao3 queer/smut fics bc these things either once they go through with this, because that's akin to possessing CSEM. Yes, you may or may not be legally required to delete that story (fanfic or not) you've invested sweat, tears and sleepless nights into.

Consuming, creating or owning sexually explicit, EDUCATIONAL OR NOT, COULD PUT YOU ON THE SEX OFFENDER REGISTRY.

I'M NOT AMERICAN, I'M JUST MAD AND TERRIFIED BECAUSE HISTORY IS CLEARLY REPEATING ITSELF.

yall so.. i actually started hrt 2 weeks ago (this week thursday will be my 3rd injection!) and i didnt make a post bc my dumbass got too lazy to buy (also poor) the trans flag to put up so i just printed out a picture and taped it on my wall LMAO

im gonna buy it soon yall!! along with the trans icon blåhaj :3

ALSO ITS FREE!!! BC MY INSURANCE IN NYS LEGALLY HAS TO INSURE ALL GENDER REAFFIRMING CARE SO ID ONLY END UP PAYING FOR THE NEEDLES IF ANYTHING

also picture of the pretty girl since yall haven’t seen her in a bit

day i start hrt is the day i will hang up my trans flag yall, just need to buy it first :3 🙏

IWANNASTART HRT NOW PLEASEEE PLEASEHWBBA PLEASEEEE WHY IS THE APPT FOR 4/10 IMGOJNA CEY PLEWSE PELASW

if you’re cis and dont know what you can be doing right now, or even trans but not sure what you can do, this article is great

02/12/25 :

went to jersey to get my hair done since im going to jamaica soon !! :)

knotless 613!!

anyone else hate getting their hair done ? its so overwhelming i hate it. i hate the amount of time it takes, i hate being touched, i hate the gel touching any part of my body (especially my face), i hate when my clothes (especially my sweater) gets dirty with anything as i feel like its an extension of my body, i hate my hair being pulled, i hate how loud it is, i hate the smells, i hate how much work it is to deal with my hair in general, etc etc

my baby hairs are very sensitive so i cannot get them braided in at all or they’ll literally fall out too :( and i know whenever they get braided in because it hurts like hell

then i also hate explaining this to braiders whenever i go because they never understand it at first so i have to explain it 2-5 more times which causes my anxiety riddled ass to get quieter and more scared

i do plan on getting locs tho so!! only got the knotless because my hair was a mess and i couldnt keep it out

Sex variant & GNC men are gender-marginalized. Period. As in, marginalized for being men. Manhood is not synonymous with cisgender patriarchal manhood. There are other forms of manhood and masculinity, and some of these are marginalized by patriarchy. Recognizing the marginalization of certain forms of manhood is not "calling them women" it is recognizing facts right in front of your fucking face.

Trans & intersex men are men, just not in the cis patriarchal way. And they are marginalized for being non-normative men, for reclaiming masculinity and making it into something non-oppressive. I'm tired of pretending I have any sort of inherent male privilege embedded in my soul as a GNC intersex man. Sure I'd have privilege SOMETIMES if I decided to buzz off all my hair, stop wearing the clothes I like, bind tighter, and I started performing patriarchal masculinity, but I'm not going to do that. Because that's not how I am a man. I tried doing that for a long fucking time and it wasn't me. And the treatment I got during that time was, while better than what I get now, still riddled with struggle. It isn't as if I can hide all my intersex traits.

So I ask, what fucking privilege do i have for being a man in the way I am right now? The privilege to be assaulted in bathrooms? The privilege of seeing the disgust on customer's faces at work when they hear how low my voice is in contrast with my appearance? The privilege of demanding to know my birth sex, and not believing me no matter my answer? The privilege of medical abuse? The privilege of people thinking they have a say in my gender identity? The privilege of people mocking my body? The privilege of being paid less than all my coworkers who work the same job? The privilege of sexual partners being disgusted at my body?

I'm not seen as a man in patriarchal society, I'm seen as a freak. And freaks don't have privilege.

i have forgotten to pay the cat tax..,.,.

forgive me.

the lovely girl likes going on walks and napping next to/on me :)

helllooo!! decided to make a blog since someone recommended me to do so for my mental health :)

hello!! im soren!!

im a pre-t trans man who was blessed by a random rock i found to be able to go on land as human !!

i suffer with really bad anxiety and possibly depression (? going to try to get diagnosed with it)

im acespec, demiromantic, and pansexual!

my gender identity is genderfaun as i go inbetween demiboy and agender

i have found a random cat who i have taken and named Baby :)

i think that is all..

goodbye now!!