Honestly I Think One Of The Most Empowering Things You Can Do For Yourself Is To Separate Your Negative

Honestly I think one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself is to separate your negative qualities from your identity.

Instead of saying “I’m lazy,” saying “I’ve made a habit of not doing work unless it’s absolutely necessary.” Instead of saying “I’m a bad friend,” saying “I haven’t communicated as much as I should with the people I care about.”

By being specific about your problems, and by framing it as an action that you are consciously either working on or ignoring rather than an unchangeable part of who you are, you allow yourself to accept your mistakes and work constructively on them instead of pretending they didn’t happen or wallowing in blaming yourself.

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8 months ago

If you see this you’re legally obligated to reblog and tag with the book you’re currently reading


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6 months ago

I’m dead serious on this. I’m so pissed off today cuz I’ve come to realize just people who I think I care about will do this shit to me. I’m not gonna ignore the logic it was just a few seconds. I’ll just feel sad. But because you made me feel that way then why did you think it was good idea to do said thing in the first place without some kind of plan? That’s the thing. You had no plan. You just didn’t care I was gonna get the fuzzy end of the lollipop.

Real talk, but if you think people who get upset easily are too stupid to comprehend logical reasons behind actions then get tf out

10 months ago

I’ve always related to Lemony Snicket, but I feel like I’m stuck between the passages of The Beatrice Letters all over again


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9 months ago
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2 months ago

You know what’s better than drunk texting your ex? Drunk texting a friend who you had a slight crush on in high school


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1 year ago

I’m considering putting out a trilogy on here born from an idea I put in a journal forever ago covering some gothic tales about witches and their familiars. I still need to finish the stories but expect them to come up soon.

It’s very much a WIP cuz I don’t even have a title yet 😂

I’m Considering Putting Out A Trilogy On Here Born From An Idea I Put In A Journal Forever Ago Covering

Time to do some more witch research and gothic tales research!


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1 year ago

Got a cool fake game idea, just need time to build it along with all my other story ideas


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1 year ago

Wrecked My Face

Pick, scratch

Another scab

Pop it, leech it

Oops, my bad.

4 months ago

tumblr is for putting your stuff somewhere that's not secret but also not for anyone particular to see so it's true neutral in a really nice way


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