...what Is The "sex Is Just Rock Climbing" Category

...what is the "sex is just rock climbing" category

It was kind of a joke between me and a friend ("you wouldn't judge someone for having gone rock climbing with a bunch of different people") but honestly the more I thought about it the more I bought into it unironically because:

It is a physical activity done with one or more partners

You should only go rock climbing with people you trust not to let you fall

You should not go rock climbing with someone who is drunk or currently incapable of rational decision-making

Some people get super super super into rock climbing and do not shut up about all the places they have climbed and how many are left on their bucket list and these people are usually men between the ages of 20 and 35 and like it's fine dude I'm glad you're happy but I don't know what most of those mountains even are

While many consider it a fun activity, pressuring someone into climbing when they don't want to (or ignoring their feelings and just dangling them off a cliff,) could cause both psychological and physical trauma

There is no moral value to it whatsoever. Who you have gone rock climbing with (or whether you have rock climbed at all) has no bearing on who you are as a person. Imagine telling someone "it's not that heights make you nauseous, it's just that you haven't found the right person to belay you!" or "you need to save your first time rock climbing for someone special." That would be absurd.

historically I have not asked myself "will this aggravate my hip flexer injury" before participating when perhaps I should have 😔

Normalize this response

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nimisnothere

1 year ago

Shenanigans

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nimisnothere

1 year ago

@somerandomdudelmao

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nimisnothere

1 year ago

I’d like to rant about something I’ve noticed over 7+ years in fandoms which is 100% probably just me I just wanna know if anyone relates.

Does anyone else feel uncomfortable with making oc/canon relationships in a ‘I get other people doing it but I’d feel weird about doing it myself’ way instead of a ‘that’s a fictional character/canon characters can’t have fan-made love interests’ way? I have no idea how to describe this accurately, might have something to do with being on the aroace spectrum. SALS (ship and let ship), obviously, I just personally feel weird about creating ocs in relationships with canon characters as a result of an attachment to a character??? Fr I’ll make fanart of fanships but not a fanship of my own.

Like does that make sense???

That might be why—across all my ocs—there are, like, 2 couples of which one is too old for me to get rid of/has a lot of sentimental value and the other kinda just…exists as a plot line.

PLEASE TELL ME AT LEAST SOME OF THIS MAKES SENSE????

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nimisnothere

1 year ago

Can’t wait to see what juicy secrets get released >:)