Are there any other asexual aromantics on here that like, really want to be with someone but, because of how they feel toward everything they dont? And are just all in that weird state of mind like, 'i want to be with someone' but when it comes to being in a relationship you feel really weird and just dont feel right?
Cause uhm, same. Happened today. Someone asked me out, and me being the idiot i am said yes completely ignoring how i feel. And now idk what to do cause i dont want to upset him but i really dont feel right. And idk how to break it to him that i think im aromantic and it wont work.
Help please? At the moment two of my friends are going to tell him for me and then if he comes up to me im going to say about how i feel but AGHHH! Times like this i wish i could just go back in time and reject him.
It also doesnt help that i felt somewhat pressured into it. Like, he asked me and my friends were near by and i felt like i couldnt say no. I just feel really weird.
Okay. Rant/vent over. But if anyone has any advice for me, let me know. Idk what to do, and im going to go another night without sleep because im panicking over it.
Sooo....update. My friends broke up with him for me. Turns out he was just going to use me to make someone jealous. Im thankful for having trust issues some times.
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if you have an identity that falls anywhere on the ace or aro spectrum I hope you find twenty dollars on the ground today.
Dont we just love it when you are not so subtly telling your friends about your shit mental health and how you want to kys but they completely over look it and move on to the next topic in the conversation.
I've rarely seen a more validating sentence in my entire life.