I Wish People Would Stop Trying To Convince Trans Men That They Shouldn’t Transition (medically).

i wish people would stop trying to convince trans men that they shouldn’t transition (medically).

“don’t go on T, you’ll go bald”

“don’t go on T, you’ll be aggressive”

“if you do go on T, get mood stabilizers because you’re gonna be really angry and destructive”

“don’t get bottom surgery, the recovery hurts”

“don’t go on T, i won’t feel safe around you anymore”

“don’t get top surgery the scars are ugly”

“why would you want to be a man? men suck”

so on and so forth. those are all things that i and other trans men i know have been told. and its gross!!

stop saying that. stop telling trans men to not transition. stop telling trans men that they’re gonna be ugly, undesirable, a “traitor”, unsafe to be around, etc. it’s transphobic.

masculinity is a wonderful, beautiful thing. let trans men be masculine. let them be strong, take up space, loud about their identity, proud about their transition. it’s not a moral failing to be masculine. trans men aren’t betraying the queer community by transitioning.

it is not trans men’s job to make themselves digestible and feminine for your comfort. there are men in the queer community. there are straight men in the queer community. there are masculine, tall, buff, bearded men in the queer community. and you might not know that they’re queer at first glance. but they’re queer nonetheless and you should be normal about that. that should not weird you out or make you feel betrayed.

trans men should transition if they want to. they should go on T, get surgeries, grow facial hair, talk about their transition and how happy they are to be a man without people telling them that they’re bad or evil for it, go to the gym and get muscle-y, be stealth if they want to, and so much more.

trans men are not misogynistic for transitioning, they’re not betraying the queer community or women, and their existence shouldn’t make you feel threatened.

mwah i love masculine trans men so much ♡ never ever feel guilty for being a man

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Idk what trans man needs to hear this but you're NOT evil or disgusting for being a man. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of the patriarchy committed by cis dudes. Being a man doesn't invalidate the misogyny you experienced growing up or experience now. Being a man doesn't mean you deserve to be isolated. Being a man doesn't mean you're inherently predatory or scary. You didn't "choose" this, and finding your true self is NOT "betraying the community" because you happen to be a man and/or masculine rather than a woman and/or feminine. You ARE allowed to be upset when people "affirm" your gender by malgendering you.

You DO deserve a community that uplifts you. You DO deserve to experience trans joy. You DO deserve to have your voices heard and your struggles recognized. Wanting the bare minimum of solidarity is NOT "making everything about trans men".

Idk What Trans Man Needs To Hear This But You're NOT Evil Or Disgusting For Being A Man. You Do NOT Have
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Put some respect on his mf name.


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