LGBTQ+ Proshippers Are Valid

hi proshippers! reminder NAWT to click any links, they might be to grab ur ip, or to doxx u.

i am blogging this everyday

🦋[Back again and here to tell you youre amazing and that your fictional ships dont determine who you are as a human being <3]🦋

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🦋[Incest shippers are super cool, you arent harming anyone by shipping this stuff, its okay to like this in fiction and be repulsed by it irl <3]🦋

🦋[Age gap/minor+adult shippers are amazing and deserve the world, you arent hurting any minors by shipping this, we know its fiction and you are absolutely NOT a predator for this <3]🦋

🦋[Abusive/toxic relationship shippers are awesome and deserve to be happy, you arent condoning nor hurting vicitms by shipping this, its perfectly okay <3]🦋

🦋[Yandere shippers are so fuckin pog, this is abit specific but i have a soft spot for yanderes, and just know you arent harmful or being harmful to anyone for shipping yandere things <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who turn wholesome ships problematic are so creative and fun, you arent a bad nor toxic/abusive person for doing this, youre wonderful <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who turn problematic ships into wholesome ones are super lovely, i never understood the issue with this anyways but just know youre such a sweetheart if you do this <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who age up characters for any reason are amazing, youre not weird for this at all <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who age down characters for any reason are valid, youre not yucky or gross or disgusting for this, its fiction and your own mind/imagination, have fun with it <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who selfship with yanderes are pog, cause same <3 its ok to love them in fiction, you arent weird or creepy or anything, youre valid <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who proship with villains and/or non-human characters are valid and super cool?? Like wow, thats just so awesome???? Your f/o(s) are super rad, and they love you <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who selfship with abusive/toxic and/or familial characters are valid and cool, i know you wouldnt do such things to your irl partner and ik you wouldnt do such things to your family, dont worry, its okay <3 fiction doesnt determine how you are morally <3]🦋

🦋[Adult selfship-proshippers who self ship with a minor character are completely valid, theyre fictional and im positive you wouldnt like minors irl, you arent a predator <3]🦋

🦋[Minor selfship-proshippers who self ship with an adult character are valid, you arent dumb/oblivious/unknowing, and im positive youd know better irl, theyre fictional, and ive been in your shoes before, its ok <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who age up their minor f/os and/or age down their adult f/os are super valid and its perfectly okay to do so, its your f/o, they love you no matter what, have fun and enjoy them <3]🦋

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🦋[We as proshippers know this stuff isnt okay irl, and absolutely dont condone it whatsoever. Whether it be for comfort, to cope, or for fun, just know its valid and that youre not a terrible person at all for shipping it. Ily, drink some water, eat something, get some sleep, and just take care of yourself. Youre worth it <3]🦋

When I feel better, I was thinking about starting some more self-ship centered posts like imagines and maybe reblog games if anyone is interested. All for proselfshippers of course! And still post general proship positivity and encouragement while I'm at it. I also draw and have improved a lot over the years so, BUT if this doesn't interest you guys on this blog I'll make a separate blog instead :) !

If pro-ship and dark-ship aren't the same why do you say pro-ship should not correlate to your views irl in your pinned, are you saying you shouldn't be anti-harassment irl?? Genuine question btw I don't understand.

Hi anon, I'm glad you asked, I felt like I needed to elaborate on that more since I started to realize it could cause some confusion/misunderstandings oops 😭 What I mean by saying that, is that when you are proship, you are aware that every ship deserves to exist in fiction, whether or not it's something you like, right? But I'm saying that shouldn't translate to what you believe should be okay to exist IRL, as in you know, for example, incest ships are okay to exist in fiction because it's fictional, no real person is being hurt, and though maybe it's not your cup of tea, you'll just block it and move on knowing it's okay for it to exist in it's fictional realm. But you shouldn't believe it's okay for that sort of relationship to exist in real life. I'm sure most people know this, y'know, but just in case. I see a lot of people who only think things shouldn't exist for the simple fact it disgusts them or makes them 'cringe' and it's to the point those things shouldn't exist IRL because it causes harm to real people, so if someone happens to not be disgusted by that kind of relationship IRL, maybe because they know it's okay it exists in fiction, and decides it's okay for that relationship to exist IRL just as much as it's okay for it to exist in fiction, then that's just not something I can agree with, so I put that disclaimer so people know right off the bat that everything I'm supportive of in dark fiction does not correlate to what I see as acceptable IRL, plus proship and profiction is purely for fiction in this regard- everything deserves to exist in fiction, as it causes no harm to real people. Though, I don't go out harassing anyone of course, this is the stance of a proshipper; antiharassment, I just block people who have views that are too contradictory to mine for me to get along with. If I ever felt someone was at risk of doing harmful things IRL I'd report them as needed and then block. All in all it's just a disclaimer for people to know if I'm someone they can interact with or not. This isn't to say I'm just strictly against paraphiles by the way, I do think there's a difference between someone holding a harmful attraction and getting help for it and knowing it's NOT okay to have that kind of relationship IRL so they don't pursue it, versus thinking it's okay to have that relationship IRL and/or pursuing it (therefore causing a real person harm), but this part mostly ties into my anti-contact stance. I hope this all makes sense and if you need anything else to be elaborated on please do ask! I like to avoid misunderstandings as much as possible and am always open to explaining anything that needs to be elaborated on. Think of that 'there's no such thing as a stupid question' saying because that's what I believe in lol

As someone that also has terrible OCD, anti shippers made it so much worse than proshippers ever did. Even if I’m very uncomfortable with some concepts they’re fictional and often tagged, that’s been a lot easier to avoid than people trying to enforce the idea that thoughts or stories make you evil

Thank you for your input, I don't have anything to add onto this but I'm just answering since I feel it's important. Hope you're doing well anon

Hello proshippers <3 What are your favorite dynamics in your fictional ships? Be it darker themes or light ones, i'd love to know! Or if you also self-ship you can me your favorite dynamic with your self-ships too!

hey maybe cross-tagging posts about how much characters hate a specific group into that group’s tags is inherently malicious and youre an asshole if you do it!

no “we just do.” is not a valid reason. you dont know how important a certain character could be to someone and you are an absolute dick if you do this. 

🦋[Heya lovely, how are you? I hope youre doing good <3 This is just a reminder to take care of yourself, and to try your hardest to ignore what anti's have to say, theyve done some really fucked up and cruel stuff, stuff ive personally never seen proshippers do or even threaten to do. So just know youre so amazing, and truely a treasure to the community and to the world in general, the proshippers i interact with are all very kind and accepting, and i hope everyone else's experiences are the same <3 Make sure to eat, drink some water, and just do whatever you can today, even if its barely anything, even if its only to get out of bed to use the bathroom- just know im super proud of you either way. As always, the inbox is open :) Take care lovelies ♡]🦋

N0nshar1ng w/ Ca1eb n Jum1n as 1f theyd ever wanna be w/ s0me1 l1ke y0u in the f1rst p1ace hell0 ( ¬‎ ࡇ,¬ )

I'm unsure of if you have an issue because I'm non-sharing with them or if it's because I'm proship but whatever issue you have with me you can always just block me. I'm going to assume the issue is the non-sharing aspect since you pointed that out, I feel like if it were a proship issue you'd have said this about all of my f/os lol, but I have no ill will in any way shape or form towards others who selfship with them. I support their relationship existing I just don't want to see it. I hold no attraction to real people, I'm just attracted to fictional characters or whatever so Jumin and Caleb feel like a real relationship to me if you get what I mean. I've loved Jumin since mysmes first came out (2016, almost 9 years now, of course there's an attachment) and Caleb just hit me hard even before he came out as a love interest, so I mean. Yeah. I think they want to be with me 😭 But it's not like a selfshipper needs to have some deeper reason for being non-sharing, if they're non-sharing then they're non-sharing and that's that. If you're uncomfortable with that you can always block them. Have a good day/night anon.

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🦋[Hey there you beautiful/handsome/pretty human being, have you eaten? Have you drank some water? Well youd better do that okay, i want you to stay healthy <3 And how are you doing? Do you need to vent or talk? Feel free to vent to me luv, im all ears <3

Just a reminder youre valid, youre amazing, and deserve all the love you can get. And if youre having a hard time, i hear you, you matter, youre loved and cared for, and i truely hope youll get better. Once again, im here for you, take a break, give yourself a breather, and be gentle with yourself, you deserve to be happy]🦋

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