Happy Birthday To My Favorite Girls

Being neurodivergent, a lot of times I struggle to understand what other people are feeling or experiencing. I’m typically horrible at giving gifts or knowing what other people want.

On rare occasions, I will be around someone who I work with and notice a minor detail which could be fixed or easily improved by some small item or simple gesture.

Then I can’t stop thinking about it until I can give it to them or figure out how to get myself to forget.

For example, I have met with my new research professor several times and when he draws on his whiteboard to explain something his markers are so dried out. So I tied an extra dry erase marker I had to a string and hung it from his door. Why don’t I just give it to him directly? Can’t do that, I’ve already overanalyzed the situation in my head. Besides I feel better that it’s anonymous because then I don’t have to navigate any awkward conversations that might be a result.

Welp...

Did you even look at koda's bio

why should i have to look at someone's bio as if it would excuse anything they have done?

Snake Stimboard for Day 23 of Boardtober!

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<3

here's some art I made, hope ya like it

when you don’t know you’re the issue lol @l0stl1am​ i did a thing!

me: *is jokingly mean to my friend*

friend: *jokingly pretends to be hurt*

me:

p- pie- pirate

doing an art trade with @xbobatea I hope you like it!!! ^^

a few reminders because i’m tired and angry

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

adult women aren’t inherently creepy for being in fandom and having hobbies apart from raising babies and doing taxes

the vast majority of people pushing back against the worrying trend of instigating harassment over fictional characters and relationships aren’t incest supporters or pedophiles, actually

liking a m/f ship doesn’t make someone a dirty heterosexual invading your space

preferring gay ships doesn’t make you ‘’woke’’ and good

no one owes you a disclaimer that they are a good person who recognizes that their favorite fictional villain’s actions are evil and that they don’t condone those actions irl

liking a fictional villain is in no way comparable to advocating abuse/murder/genocide/etc and you’re a fucking idiot if you believe that

just because a woman is attracted to a fictional villain doesn’t mean she’s promoting toxic relationships or going to end up in a toxic relationship. assuming women can’t tell fiction and reality apart stinks of internalized misogyny 

some rando’s a/b/o fanfics have none of the level of influence that popular tv shows and movies spreading propaganda have

no one owes you a detailed description of their traumas and mental health problems

abusive relationships are not the same as enemies to lovers ships

y’all need to chill the fuck out over people, relationships, actions and events that don’t actually exist and learn how to enjoy and discuss them like normal people

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

feel free to add more

<3 is all you Meed

via @extramadness