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Ok like I’m here for the whole “if it doesn’t make you happy, don’t do it” movement but like, be smart, yeah? Don’t just quit your job out of the blue, even if it is soul sucking, get another job first. Don’t just kick your roommate out because you aren’t getting along, talk to them first. And don’t say absolutely everything that pops into your mind, because discretion will save your ass on occasion. I’m not saying you can’t live authentically, but be smart.

also in trans news that should be talked about. laverne cox has stated that on saturday her and a friend were assulted in a park and it’s not really getting the same attention as elliot. we can still be proud of him without ingnoring what happened to laverne and her friend.

if you claim ally ship to the trans community then you can’t ignore the bad things that happen to especially trans woc. and if you’re a white trans person you can’t just talk about other white trans people. it just shows that you only care about trans people if they are white and that shouldn’t be the case.

if your gonna talk about elliot please also talk about laverne. she deserves better and we should all do better to raise up the voices of black trans women.

australia is burning: how you can help

i havent seen much on tumblr about the fires, so i thought i would share what i can.

places you can donate:

Australian Red Cross Disaster Recovery and Relief

NSW Rural Fire Service

WIRES Australian Wildlife Rescue

St Vincent de Paul Society Bushfire Appeal

Victorian Country Fire Association

First Relief Fund for First Nation Communuties

Foodbank Victoria

Vets for Compassion

RSPCA Bushfire Appeal

Port Macquarie Koala Hospital

Wild 2 Free Kangaroo Sanctuary

Families of the Firefighters who have died

Salvation Army

merch makers and artists donating to the cause:

lanajay - phone background

kirabunni - prints

theidolcollective - pin

vantecrafts - winter bear kit

bitsofpins - helped organise a large group of bts merch artists who are all in the process of releasing items where the proceeds will all be donated. keep and eye out on the @'s in the post as theyre all part of the donation event

i live roughly 4,155km away from the closest point of australia, and these fires are so bad, they turn our skies red, and leave everything under a cloudy haze of smoke. the air quality in aussie itself is sitting at over 20 times the standard hazardous levels, over 400 million animals are dead, the fire has burnt over 5million hectares of land, over 1400 homes have been destroyed, and 24 people have been died.

please please please search out information, share posts, and remember that even a single dollar can make a difference

Massive, Comprehensive OC Template

back with another oc template - this one with original fiction characters in mind, with the aim of thoroughly fleshing out said characters!  however it can also be used for fanfiction purposes, as well as RPing!  whatever you need it for.

there are eight sections (General/Preliminary Information, Background, Mental, Emotional, Politics, Physical, Sex & Relationships, and In The Story) and at least a few hundred questions!  of course, this can be tailored to your needs; i just included all the questions i could think of to help you flesh out your characters!

- don’t claim this as your own.  this took me forever to do and if you take it - well that’s not very nice.

- message me or drop an ask if there’s anything you think i should add, change, or fix!

here you go! enjoy! <3

like or reblog if u save. :)

sleeping bread 😭💞 

instagram au: modern day deities (1/?)

Justin Foley-Jensen Adoption Headcanons

This was not requested, and I have requests I need to fill, but I’m feeling extra about this rn so I’m doing it

After Justin and Clay have their talk, they share the news with Clay’s parents

Lainie beams and embraces both of them

Matt just smiles and claps a hand on both of their shoulders

They ask Justin if he’d like to make their guest room his room

And he says yes

But it’s on the first floor and it’s too quiet and lonely at night

So he ends up sleeping in the upstairs hallway one night after a particularly bad nightmare

Clay wakes up early and literally trips over Justin’s head

Once Justin explains what happened, Clay just rolls his eyes, and says, “Jesus, next time just come sleep in my room. It’s not like I mind.” Then he shoves Justin good-naturedly, and says, “Listen, you fucking detoxed from heroin all over my bedroom floor. You should know by know that you can come sleep in my room whenever.”

Lainie is the one who notices Justin’s been using again

She finds his stash when she’s doing the laundry one day

When she asks him about it, he denies it, but once she shows him what she found he knows he’s busted

And then he just cries

It’s like everything that’s been building up for so long, and the shame within him for relapsing after he promised to get clean just hurts so bad

They took him in, and he feels like he doesn’t deserve it

She just hugs him for a while and rubs his back, which makes him cry harder because he never really had comfort like this from his mom (or a mother figure) before

She tells him that they’ll get him into a program for recovery from substance abuse

It slips out before he can stop it, “Thanks, Mom.”

It surprises both of them

But Lainie just smiles and kisses his forehead. “You’re welcome, honey.”

When Clay finds out that Justin is going into a program, he tells him of when he had to sign up for a substance abuse program because of the weed that was planted on him at school

He assures him that the program will be good for him

Because obviously Clay knew he was nervous

Clay and Justin seem to have an intuition for each other’s feelings 

Matt is the one who tries to get Justin back into his hobbies

He offers to shoot hoops with him, even though he’s really bad at it

He helps Justin with his homework and is always patient with him in a way Clay sometimes isn’t

They have family game nights and family movie nights

They’re always disgusting adorable and cliché

Matt never stops making dad jokes

Matt teaches Justin how to cook

Justin discovers that he really likes it

And he really likes having a family to cook for

On his adoption day, they all dress up and take lots of pictures (much to Clay’s and Justin’s dismay)

Justin decides to hyphenate his last name because as he put it, “I don’t think I want to forget my past and where I came from but…I want to commit to this family, you know? I want your last name. You guys are the best thing that ever happened to me”

It’s a very emotional moment

A big family group hug ensues, started by Clay’s mom 

They throw a big party for Justin’s adoption day with all his new relatives and friends

After people are starting to clear out, Justin and Clay are sitting on the side by themselves

Clay says, “You know, I kind of always wanted a sibling growing up. Being an only child can be kind of lonely sometimes.”

Justin just smiles and punches his arm and says, “You’re tellin’ me.”

They both just laugh

The Jensen family never felt so complete or whole

Even if they argue, they love and accept each other at the end of the day

And they make each other better people

𝟎𝟖𝟎𝟓𝟐𝟓 - ∞ | #𝟏𝟐𝐘𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐞𝐞

happy anniversary to our lights, our loves, and the brightest stars in the sky. thank you for your smiles, your tears, your laughter, your music, and most of all: you. to many more years of joy, happiness, and love; thank you.

It’s okay…