Imagine Being Called Out Like This Lol. I'm Slipping But I Am Really Trying This Time

This drawing was a request for @blurgayhero of their Oc

Art trade I did a while ago with @neldeathstar ft. their version of Mairon 🔥🔥

Apparently this is a trend? Not that I needed an excuse for it anyway

(I owe one of you a Valentine request. I haven't forgotten about it. I discarded like 4 sketches, but I think I finally have one that I might finish, although it's more wintery than Valentine themed)

people thinking that all afab nonbinary people are inherently moving towards masculinity and all amab nonbinary people are inherently moving towards femininity.

this is exorsexism.

this idea is often used to justify using the terms transmasculine and transfeminine in some kind of universally applicable way, but it's based on a gross oversimplification of the gender spectrum as a slider between male and female/masculine and feminine.

there is an infinite number of directions for an amab nonbinary person to go in. femininity is not the only one just because the gender binary says so. they could transition into an in between space, considering themself androgynous rather than masc or fem. they could transition into neutrality. they could transition into nonbinary masculinity. they could transition out of gender altogether. they could transition into a gender that has no ties to the binary. they could transition into fluidity. they could transition into an infinite number of things. the same is true for an afab nonbinary person.

take xenogenders for example. if an afab nonbinary person identifies as a specific xenogender, they'd be considered more masculine than before, but if an amab nonbinary person identified as the exact same gender, they'd be considered to be more feminine than before, even though most xenogenders aren't inherently masculine or feminine. not all nonbinary genders consist of a balance of masculinity and femininity.

when i came out, i didn't move towards the opposite of my AGAB by virtue of moving away from my AGAB. i am now equally far away from both.

the gender spectrum is not linear.

Its true, i do and it's a problem and its sad and i wish it would stop. I am not a cat. I can't get away with it

I make things worse

The Preserver’s Hand