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LGBTQ and Christianity: Can they coexist? (Part 1)

This is coming from a conservative-ish, brown, formerly bi person (I’m 19 M at the time I posted this. 2/26/2025)

I say this out of love, not out of hate.

you’re not a devil. You’re a child of the Most High. 

Now for the tough love. Again, I do not say this out of hate. Everyone (straight and LBGT alike) is my brother and sister and nothing less.

Don’t listen to these people who say it’s okay to be part of the LGBT community. I don’t want to come off rude, but I have to tell you bluntly and straight to the point. (If I come off derogatory, please know that wasn’t my intention. So sorry if I do). 

Simply ask and beg God to get this out of your system. If it doesn’t go away, God can help you fight it for you (I have ways to combat lust. Hit me up)

it’s one thing to be tempted, another to act on it.

you get an urge to kill someone, but you don’t do it. Does that make you a murderer? No! But resolve everything with love and peace.

“seek peace and pursue it.” -Psalm 34

Remember it was Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve nor Adriana and Eve. Romans 1:26-27, 1 Corinthians 6:9, 1 Timothy 1:10 even speak about this. Again, this is coming from a guy who WAS bi (kinda). it’s one thing to be tempted, another to act on it.

Many have said that God delivered them from homosexuality and they now have a wonderful family married to the wife (if a male) or husband (if a female) of their dreams. 

Research shows that conservative, heterosexual women had a happy marriage.

Research shows that lesbian couples got divorced in later stages in life.

Research shows that TRUE Christian men (not the fake ahh ones) who go to church three times a month were reported to be more gentle and respectful to their woman.

If they are vibing with God like how I spoke, you can too, my friend. Hope this helps, my friend. 

Ayo, i don’t mean to force anything on anyone, but we have various types of evidence for biblical events, if anyone is interested. I also found ways to combat lust, if anyone is interested. (I’m talking archaeological evidence, miracles caught live, arguments against evolution, divine revelation, science, cosmology, fulfilled prophecy, evidence for the Bible outside of the Bible, God’s work in people’s lives, etc.)

I don't really agree with everything you say regarding things about lgbt+ (specifically, saying being gay is a temptation more than just who a person is? It's 1:30 am and i did read a bit of your stuff but not all of it so I'm incredibly sorry if I misinterpreted it)

but I do appreciate you aren't being homophobic about things or shaming gay people. I believe in God but have a really different view on a lot of things so I don't exactly fit in a section but I do have an issue with people using God to be hateful and you don't do that which i really appreciate.

I have read over a few of your posts regarding porn, and you bring up good points on how women are treated in that industry.

I just wanted to come in and say that despite not really agreeing with *everything*, I can appreciate your efforts and the difference you can make on some people's life with wearing your heart on your sleeve.

God bless you 🙏

thanks so much for the kind words and for responding! I like hearing from people, both critical feedback and constructive criticism—-st least they know about me lol.

thank you for saying you disagree with me. I think it’s important to have friends who believe differently than you—-it’ll clear up common misconceptions, and people can learn to compromise without fully abandoning their beliefs or values (but sometimes just because someone believes something, that doesn’t make it right!)

as for the gay stuff—-being gay isn’t all you are or meant to be. Don’t let the world define you—-let Jesus Christ define you.

As a formerly bi kiddo, I get it—-trying to hide yourself from the world that hates you and mocks you. Christians and gays have more in common than we think.

I still have fleeting thoughts from time to time about lusting for others (checking out or mentally undressing others) and thoughts about men specifically, but I don’t consider myself bi or anything like that.

now, is being gay wrong? Sort of, but that doesn’t give anyone the right to hate anyone (I’m talking to you, homophobes. They’re human too. That want to love and be loved! To be held on those lonely nights. You ding dongs)

it’s one thing to be tempted, but it’s another to act. You can say someone’s attractive, but it’s what you do with that thought—-do you entertain it or do you say “go to hell! I’m with God! I don’t do this $hit anymore!”

see the difference? That’s the whole “hate the sin, love the sinner” motto. Unfortunately, SOME Christians interpret that as “hate the sin, hate the sinner.” And I deeply apologize for that.

thanks for reading and checking my blog! God bless YOU, kind human!

true story. Can confirm. I was there

Never happened!

Here’s a collection of some of the many images of things that never, ever happened in the DC universe:

Remember, kids, these images never happened, you must be dreaming, it’s all an illusion, these aren’t the droids you are looking for.

remember guys. It’s called the DCU (Detective Comics Universe)

It’s not called the BCU (Batman centered universe)

You see, pre-Bruce Timm and DCAU, (no hate on him but he’s really massacred so many characters) so many characters had the potential to be household names. Heroes such as Blue beetle, booster gold, the multitude of lanterns of all emotional spectrums, fire, ice, aquaman, etc.

but then brucie Timm made brucie Wayne the batgod we all know he is NOW, having all the ladies give their attention to the alpha male, including our alpha female Princess Diana of Themyscira. and Superman, who was the leader of the Justice League, was reduced to a pair of fists. All brawn, no brain (except in his own comics. Supes has a scientific mind and so does WW, but that all goes away when near Batman.)

ever since Batman’s rise, all other heroes’ IQ were reduced to negative integers whenever in a 10 mile radius of Batman. I mean, Batman claims he works alone, yet here he is bossing everyone around.

Diana hates being controlled and told what to do, but here she is bowing down to Batman. Even Catwoman stands up to Batman, but not WW? I thought she was a feminist icon? Female empowerment and gender equality? Gone when Batman is around?

even Bruce Timm admitted he didnt know what to do with our girl Diana and decided the strong, tough, independent woman should be out of character and drool whenever Brucie was around. I mean, Batman had to save Wonder Woman from her own villain. Come on, now.

again, I love Batman, Superman, Wonder Woman, but it’s time to slow down with the Batman being batgod.

Ayo, i don’t mean to force anything on anyone, but we have various types of evidence for biblical events, if anyone is interested. (I’m talking archaeological evidence, miracles caught live, arguments against evolution, divine revelation, science, cosmology, fulfilled prophecy, evidence for the Bible outside of the Bible, God’s work in people’s lives, etc.)

Batman vs Superman

Time to break down the BvS fight in TDKR (the Dark Knight Returns) and also the film BvS (Batman v Superman). 

in TDKR, Superman was just trying to reason with Batman. He wasn’t out for blood. He was just trying to confront him like a parent to his or her child. That’s all it was. Stop blowing it out of proportion. (Another tumblr user came up with this analogy. It’s not mine.)

and in BvS, same thing. Clark was trying to reason with a bloodthirsty Batman. Superman needed help finding Clark’s mom—Martha. (He could have just used his super hearing to listen for her heartbeat.) stop blowing things out of proportion. 

“If I wanted it, you’d be dead already!” -Superman to Batman

In Batman: Hush, Bats even said that Superman could take him down with his superspeed. But Clark was holding back. And Clark is more than just fists.

Clark has alien technology that is more advanced than earth and understands it. He led the JL before Bruce Timm showed up and forced a bunch of changes—-Batman, the self-righteous lone wolf as the leader of the JL (“I work alone.” Yet has the entire Batfam, GCPD, and Batman Inc.), an OOC Wonder Woman interested in Batman and a grumpy strong man for Superman.

(Also, (This is coming from a formerly bi person (not important in this context)): i don’t mean to force anything on anyone, but we have various types of evidence for biblical events, if anyone is interested. I also found ways to combat lust, if anyone is interested. (I’m talking archaeological evidence, miracles caught live, arguments against evolution, divine revelation, science, cosmology, fulfilled prophecy, evidence for the Bible outside of the Bible, God’s work in people’s lives, etc.)

Superman and Wonder Woman

This is coming from a Clois fan but I’m a SuperWonder shipper at heart.

Lois GROUNDS Superman? Steve GROUNDS Wondy?

Hold on, Supes was raised by human parents, loved by humans and loved humans. To say that he needs a human in order to understand humans is a bit mean.

Isn’t the human thing to love and be loved? To serve God and serve others? Regardless of color, origin, and background?

Would that not apply to both Supes and Wondy too? They were loved by their parents, loved the  people around them, were hurt and bullied, learned to find their place in the world, and were taught by their parents to love the people they shared this messed up rock with and to help others. And this was BEFORE Lois and Steve.

Speaking of mean, Lois is just a jerk (she loves power), but I like to think after interacting with Clark, she became a better person. But then again… Lois literally flirted with other men and made Clark jealous. in front of Superman. She even cheated on Superman with Jeb Friedman. Is that what you want for our boy in blue? 

Supes and Wondy are each other’s equals—-emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually. They know what it’s like to live in a world made of cardboard.

Even many WW fans said that Batman is NOT the man for Wonder Woman.

But they also share the same goals and optimism—to better the world and end crime and all that. Besides, they don’t need a human lover to learn to be human.

And as for Batman: BatCat all the way.

Batman sees not all criminals are evil—-just hurting. “Hurt people hurt people”

And Catwoman learns not all rich people are evil. There are good people out there. both of them are loners who learn how to trust each other. (Batman: Hush. The issue where Batman fights Superman.)

This is coming from a formerly bi person (19 M at the time I’m writing this. Not important in This context): Also, i don’t mean to force anything on anyone, but we have various types of evidence for biblical events, if anyone is interested. I also found ways to combat lust, if anyone is interested. (I’m talking archaeological evidence, miracles caught live, arguments against evolution, divine revelation, science, cosmology, fulfilled prophecy, evidence for the Bible outside of the Bible, God’s work in people’s lives, etc.)

hey guys, if you ever think about looking at porn or checking out other women and girls, this is what’s happening behind the scenes. Those poor girls and women are more than just bodies. Matthew 5:28. Also, check my older posts or see below on how to combat lust! Let me know if you need anything! God loves you and I love you! God bless!

This is coming from a formerly bi person (19 M when I write this)

How to combat lust: Triggers

“Trace it, face it, erase it, replace it.”

TRACE the triggers, FACE it with God’s help (you can’t do it on your own. Trust me), ERASE all triggers, and REPLACE it (put a different activity in its place. Remember how the house was cleaned, but then seven more demons showed up and trashed the place? Luke 11:26)

The fact that you’re trying is good. After all, “For the righteous man falls seven times and rises again.” (Prov 24:16)

“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled.” Matthew 5:6

“Where is God when I need Him?”

How temptation really works

Make sure to cleanse your mind. Don’t think about certain things, don’t check out girls (Or check out guys, if you’re a girl). Keep your eyes on their faces. Even then, just straight up don’t look at them if it’s possible.

Watch out for the music you listen to (dirty words. That is a trigger. Trust me. I know.) 

Try some ACTUALLY GOOD Christian music (see below)

Check these out for 

Metal: some skillet, theocracy, divinefire, golden resurrection, REFORMED

Rock: dcTalk, red, skillet, ashes remain, old Tobymac, Kevin max (from dcTalk), thousand foot krutch, jars of clay, switchfoot

Also, watch out for The shows, memes, etc. you watch. Those are triggers as well. (Dirty jokes and whatnot)

Get the correct amount of sleep. Your hormones will be thrown off.

Don’t look at men or women in a certain way. 

In the words of Stan Lee, “that man sitting next to you, that’s your brother. That woman sitting over there-that’s your sister.”

Besides, some of those people are taken. How would you like it if someone gave your boyfriend/husband or girlfriend/wife a certain look? 

Also, the people you see in those videos are people who are being trafficked and rap3d. It’s NOT what you think it is. Imagine if that happened to your girlfriend, wife, sister, friend, mother, grandmother, aunt, etc. them begging for their life inside while ACTING as if it’s okay? They’re called “ACTORS” for a reason.

My friend, don’t do this. These men and women are just trying to get by. They don’t need anyone looking at them in a certain way. They just want to be loved, Not lusted after. Not looked at and used like a s3x toy and put away when not needed. They might be low on money, they could have been traumatized, they could be su!cidal, they could be selling their bodies unwillingly so they can get cash. Please. You don’t know what theyre going through. 

protect and look after everyone as if they were your children. Care for them as you would your own spouse or closest/only friend. Love and look at them as if you had one hour left to be with them.

Ayo, i don’t mean to force anything on anyone, but we have various types of evidence for biblical events, if anyone is interested. I also found ways to combat lust, if anyone is interested. (I’m talking archaeological evidence, miracles caught live, arguments against evolution, divine revelation, science, cosmology, fulfilled prophecy, evidence for the Bible outside of the Bible, God’s work in people’s lives, etc.)

Superman and Superwoman vs SuperWonder

this is coming from someone who enjoys Batman, Superman, Wonder Woman, (Clois) Superman and Lois while also being a SuperWonder shipper at heart

I find it a bit hypocritical that people are going crazy over Lois Lane getting superpowers when they’re also the ones who say (cheating) Lois “grounds” Clark and their relationship is special by having no powers.

They’re going berserk over Superman and Wonder Woman getting together yet once (cheating) Lois Lane gains powers. It’s literally just Superman and Wonder Woman’s dynamic all over again.

People always say that if Superman and Wonder Woman get together, their values are gonna change and they’re just gonna be unstoppable tyrants on earth because of their powers.

if you can’t see Supes and Wondy past their powers and they’re matching costumes you’re just like Lex Luthor and Steve Trevor. I mean DC themselves said that they are more than just their powers. They want to work together to save the Earth long way—-they both have something to fight for….together. (see the ultimate guide to Wonder Woman)

“They aren’t people at all. They are power. Unpredictable, horrendous power, and nothing more.” -Lex Luthor, Superman/Wonder Woman #5

“I realize that the two of you were meant for each other. Matching costumes. Matching cost powers. Felt like fate. And as weird as it might sound, I found that comforting. You made each other happy.” -Steve Trevor, Superman #48

Don’t be blinded by nostalgia. Clark was raised by HUMAN parents, loved by HUMANS and aliens, and loved HUMANS and aliens alike. To say that he needs a HUMAN in order to understand humans is a bit disrespectful to everyone else who poured into Clark’s life (including DC’s precious batgod).

Isn’t the human thing to do is to love and be loved? To serve God and serve others Regardless of color, origin, and background?

Would that not apply to both Supes and Wondy too? They were loved by their parents, loved the  people around them, were hurt and bullied, learned to find their place in the world, and were taught by their parents to love the people they shared this messed up rock with and to help others. And this was BEFORE they met Lois and Steve.

Also, modern steve and Lois is literally everything what Diana and Clark were back in the OG comics. Diana wants Kal, Clark, and Superman, and Clark wants Wonder Woman and Diana.

In the older comics, Clark and Diana were the butt the joke in their own comics (nothing changed now)—-their love interests only wanted their superhero identities. Then DC gave their dynamics to Lois and Steve for whatever reason.

to sum it up, they literally made Lois into Wonder Woman. Congratulations.

why not put Lois and Steve together?  Lois Lane, whose dad was a General, be paired up with Steve Trevor, who works for the US military and ARGUS? or Lois and Lex? They both have matching initials and both are ambitious and shove everyone down who get in front of what they want. They both are power hungry try to be top dog.

Also, (this is coming from a formerly bi person, not important in this context): i don’t mean to force anything on anyone, but we have various types of evidence for biblical events, if anyone is interested. I also found ways to combat lust, if anyone is interested. (I’m talking archaeological evidence, miracles caught live, arguments against evolution, divine revelation, science, cosmology, fulfilled prophecy, evidence for the Bible outside of the Bible, God’s work in people’s lives, etc.)

The Contradiction of Open Relationships and Polygamy

Couples have been where you’re at, got older and now they are divorced. Now they are warning others to not do open relationships. Learn from them!

When someone wants an open relationship, He or she was or is probably cheating on you emotionally or physically, and now just wants permission to continue.

Look, please stop this. Spare yourself some STD’s along with physical and emotional cheating. You do know your either or both partners will just regard you as “free food, free shelter, and a free therapist.” 

Open relationships is literally cheating but yo don’t confront the cheater. And it’s EMOTIONAL CHEATING!! YOURE RUINING OTHER PEOPLE’S RELATIONSHIPS ALONG WITH YOURS! 

You say you want to spend time WITH the one person, yet you spend time WITH OTHER PEOPLE!

take marriage for example: I mean, did you notice how it was only you two making vows to one another, and not three or more people there?

as for those who encourage sleeping with others while in a relationship: You don’t need validation from other people. these people don’t care about you. They don’t care about your personality, what you like or dislike. What your favorite cereal and superheroes are. What your favorite movie genres and hobbies are. What your favorite music genres are. They just want to use you—-use your body as a pawn, a mere object, a mere sack of meat For their own gain. They don’t care for your well being.

Think about think about it, you’re pouring your heart out to your romantic partner yet your partner is thinking about someone else entirely as you’re doing so. 

look, I love everybody as Christ tells us to, but you woke people are crazy at times

Superman (when put next to Batman) power scaling be like:

✨the plot thickens✨

EDIT: Ayo DC, stop being lazy and write Superman well!! Make Superman Super Again! Superman was holding back whenever he fights Batman! He was just trying to keep Bruce from hurting himself or others in TDKR

he said “if I wanted it, you’d be dead already!” In BVS!

And stop with the Clois and WonderBat stuff! Supes is held back by Lois and Wonder Woman would NEVER go for Batman. Put SuperWonder back on! (We don’t want Supes and Wondy to overshadow each other. Supes’ creators even said LL wasn’t supposed to end up with Supes!)

She’s the spirit of truth. He’s the spirit of lies and deception. He talks down to everyone and is willing to take you and your friends down in a heartbeat yet won’t stop those who have no interest in repentance! Even Bruce Timm said he didn’t know what to do with WW so he decided for all women to go after Batman!

Remind me why the non-people person is the one leading the JL? Supes and Wondy have proven to lead well. Superman even led the JL before he died! Come on now! It’s called the DCU! Not the BCU (Batman Centered Universe)! look, I love Batman, by stop making him overshadow everyone! Blue beetle, booster gold, animal man, swamp thing, flash, green lantern, and countless others could be household names like the big 3 if DC is willing to make it so.

look at marvel! So many people know so many different heroes from their cast. They write them well, made modern modifications to make it appeal to the 21 century, and now everyone knows who the Avengers, defenders, guardians of the galaxy, Illuminati, X-Men are!

okay so I realize I went on a rant, but shut up.

point is, make Superman Super again! And all other Superheroes again! And bring back SuperWonder

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