they’re opening up a new sister store in a different province and they asked me to do some email correspondence with my joint health and safety counterpart out there to help him get set up and run the team, but they warned me before hand that he was “notoriously difficult” so i was absolutely dreading this thinking “shit, he’s gonna be one of those guys who thinks taking direction is an insult to his masculinity and he’s gonna be rude and suck”
but it turns out he’s just really autistic and needs super clear direction + he writes his emails like a 1911 telegram. i LOVE this guy. i’ve never worked with someone who wrote so clearly and in such detail, and absorbs everything i say. plus whenever he gets an email he responds immediately with “received. response to follow. thank you.” top 10 coworkers of all time. top 5 even.
Yay!!! Yippee!!! Wahoo!!!!! Husband!!!!!
interactive selfship prompt #2 ! reblog with your favorite in canon picture/gif/clip of your f/o !!! if your f/o isn't from a visual media, reblog with your favorite dialougue or fanart of them!
Oh i am gping to CRY its so beautiful and so HIM!! ty i love you fprever
Reblog with a picture of your f/o(s) (no more than three) and I'll assign them an engagement ring (either for them to propose to you with or you to propose to them with!!) 💍
you know i don’t think we often talk about how difficult it actually is to suddenly realize that a belief you thought was good and moral and correct was actually really fucking toxic. how you have to look at something and go ‘oh shit, oh i fucked up. oh this is going to take probably years at minimum to deprogram from my brain because of all the little ways this shit pervaded the rest of my beliefs’
so. to all the people picking up all the pieces of a recently shattered world-view and trying to figure out what is safe to keep and what has to be thrown away and started over
to all the people having to relearn how to even listen to other people
to all the people putting in the work to do better while struggling with the guilt that comes from finding out you were the asshole
i’m proud of y’all.
it’s hard to admit being wrong and even harder to change in the aftermath. just keep doing the best you can and just know that the effort is appreciated. everyone can change. everyone can do better. keep fighting.
Wow thanks that helped a lot
Who new id find another thing to be anxious about!! Life really is full of little surprises huh!
I saw the got fired from the job at the spa and i just had to follow because it's 9:58am and i have just fell off my chair from choking on my drink.
<3333 i am so fcking glad someone else got a chuckle from that stupid joke
Sometimes I only know who characters are because of my mutuals
“Oh that’s _____! Mutual’s s/o!”
Well. Truly i am the fool
Wow okay so we have a chicken now i guess