Here’s A Friendly Reminder!

Here’s a friendly reminder!

You are allowed to say ‘no’.

You are allowed to hang up the phone.

You are allowed to ignore calls.

You are allowed to delete emails, texts and messages.

You are allowed to ignore the doorbell.

You are allowed to decline invitations.

You are allowed to lie about why you can’t / won’t go. 

You are allowed to refuse gifts or give them away.

You are allowed to prioritize yourself or your friends over family.

You are allowed to leave. 

You are allowed to leave without saying goodbye. 

You are allowed to withhold politeness to those who disrespect you.

You are allowed to express your anger.

You are allowed to shut someone out. 

More Posts from Transdanganvhs and Others

1 year ago

Games for Gaza is a collection of 256 games on itchio, which you can grab for only TEN DOLLARS, with all profits going toward Medical Aid for Palestinians. these are the 10 games I'll probably play myself:

Neurocracy 2049 is a mystery game, in which you solve a murder by sifting through an in-game 'wikipedia' for clues

Games For Gaza Is A Collection Of 256 Games On Itchio, Which You Can Grab For Only TEN DOLLARS, With

2. Multiplicity is a short cosmic horror game, with a retro aesthetic and interesting art direction

Games For Gaza Is A Collection Of 256 Games On Itchio, Which You Can Grab For Only TEN DOLLARS, With

3. Slasher U is a horror-comedy dating sim with 18+ content and very fun visuals

Games For Gaza Is A Collection Of 256 Games On Itchio, Which You Can Grab For Only TEN DOLLARS, With

4. Mysteries Under Lake Ophelia is a fishing sim that looks rather peaceful.... but is it? there might be something unsettling, waiting to be found beneath the water

Games For Gaza Is A Collection Of 256 Games On Itchio, Which You Can Grab For Only TEN DOLLARS, With

5. The Corridor is a short meta game about the experience of playing games. more specifically, about the experience of walking down a corridor. what does that mean? I don't know.

Games For Gaza Is A Collection Of 256 Games On Itchio, Which You Can Grab For Only TEN DOLLARS, With

6. Nuts is an eerie narrative game about.......watching squirrels?! and it doesn't disappoint, there are a large number of squirrels. the world you can walk through looks gorgeous, with stylized surreal colours.

Games For Gaza Is A Collection Of 256 Games On Itchio, Which You Can Grab For Only TEN DOLLARS, With

7. Brassica - A Marry Tale is a gay dating sim with a charming art style

Games For Gaza Is A Collection Of 256 Games On Itchio, Which You Can Grab For Only TEN DOLLARS, With

8. Orchids to Dusk is a short wandering game about an astronaut on an alien planet with only a few minutes left to live

Games For Gaza Is A Collection Of 256 Games On Itchio, Which You Can Grab For Only TEN DOLLARS, With

9. Extreme MeatPunks Forever is a hybrid visual novel/ brawling sim, following the lives of a handful of gay mech pilots

Games For Gaza Is A Collection Of 256 Games On Itchio, Which You Can Grab For Only TEN DOLLARS, With

10. Evolution is a game where you build lifeforms, and help them evolve to perform tasks

Games For Gaza Is A Collection Of 256 Games On Itchio, Which You Can Grab For Only TEN DOLLARS, With

and that's just 10 out of 256! there's plenty to appreciate, so check out the bundle yourself

1 year ago

and let the history books name joe biden, rishi sunak, justin trudeau, emmanuel macron, ursula von der leyen and every other world leader who did not step in to prevent the genocide of palestine as cold-blooded murderers. may they face a shred of the immeasurable pain and suffering they allowed to be committed against 2.2. million innocent lives.


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1 year ago

Yeah, this is seriously concerning. I think you guys should block and be aware of someone with this amount of Tumblr reach saying this shit.

Yeah, This Is Seriously Concerning. I Think You Guys Should Block And Be Aware Of Someone With This Amount

This b0gl33ch guy fully intends (and has done already, as you can see) to falsely slander queer abuse survivors (a particularly vulnerable demographic, especially to this type of accusation in the current climate) as pedophiles because of coping/vent fic. He's wished death on us multiple times and stood by it, only to deny it when pushed. Multiple times. Despite the evidence otherwise being right there. He's refusing to listen and moving the goalposts back and forth. When he himself has shared "underage NSFW art" for shits and gigs. Hey, bud, if it's harmful, you "joking" about it doesn't lessen that harm.

Again, he denies his behaviour, despite proof being right there.

Yeah, This Is Seriously Concerning. I Think You Guys Should Block And Be Aware Of Someone With This Amount
Yeah, This Is Seriously Concerning. I Think You Guys Should Block And Be Aware Of Someone With This Amount
Yeah, This Is Seriously Concerning. I Think You Guys Should Block And Be Aware Of Someone With This Amount

Yeah, This Is Seriously Concerning. I Think You Guys Should Block And Be Aware Of Someone With This Amount

Yeah, This Is Seriously Concerning. I Think You Guys Should Block And Be Aware Of Someone With This Amount
Yeah, This Is Seriously Concerning. I Think You Guys Should Block And Be Aware Of Someone With This Amount

I also had someone tell me in private that one of the people collaborating on a project with him has sexually harassed others multiple times in the past, so I worry that he's so convinced the predators must be here that he's oblivious to the ones right next to him.

Every time we point out to him our being queer survivors is relevant to a conversation about a) art censorship and b) coping mechanisms, he just rants that we're saying that to escape being pedophiles. To the point where he's actively erased our identities. So I'm very concerned about how this pedojacketing behaviour is likely not going to stop, even with the demographic he's aiming it at in mind.

Yeah, This Is Seriously Concerning. I Think You Guys Should Block And Be Aware Of Someone With This Amount

Oh, and here:

Yeah, This Is Seriously Concerning. I Think You Guys Should Block And Be Aware Of Someone With This Amount
Yeah, This Is Seriously Concerning. I Think You Guys Should Block And Be Aware Of Someone With This Amount

Same guy who's just SO concerned with the harmful effects of minors potentially seeing "problematic NSFW content" online, to the point he wants to censor survivors (and supported getting one blacklisted from an entire industry, btw. That survivor is now destitute and dying from a medical condition they cannot afford to treat). Apparently he was totally fine with NSFW Velma (from Scooby Doo) art, too, and she's canonically a minor.

1 year ago

Normalize going into people’s ask boxes and ask them random ass questions.

Tumblr used to be so much fun with all the asks (anonymous or otherwise), and we need to bring those back, especially now that we finally have a half-decent blocking feature in place.

Ask people things! Message them! Don’t let tumblr inbox die! It’s one of the features that made tumblr tumblr.

1 year ago

Just so we're clear.

Fictives are not a sign of faking.

Quiet/Loud switches are not a sign of faking.

Large systems are not a sign of faking.

Switching a lot is not a sign of faking.

Not switching much is not a sign of faking.

Emotional amnesia is still amnesia.

Don't force people to address trauma they may not even remember.

Don't force people to remember trauma.

Childhood traumas don't have to be what an adult would consider extreme. Kids are a lot more sensitive to stimuli and cruelty.

And some systems have done fucked up shit in their childhoods, it's not their fault they had to survive.

Be kind, people need it.

1 year ago

The more I get back into liking, loving and lusting on people, the more I'm reminded what a sanitized, segregated lie queers have been built into.

I've met the sweetest, prettiest queens who tell me "Well, I'm a transsexual. Sometimes I call myself a transman because both my trans self and my manhood are me."

New friends tell me about the sexcapades their closed polycule gets up to that they just watch because they're a kinky ace.

There's staunch lesbians who helped the love of their life transition as a transmasc, gay men begging to be topped by trans men with the fattest tits.

Older queers don't hesitate to shout "oh, like Prince!" when I tell them I'm androgyne. Vanilla questioning men will text me day after day before shyly confessing I'm their dream guy. Closeted trans women ask to kiss me because I'm their dream girl. Doms and subs who melt when they realize I'm both and neither, and they didn't know somebody like me existed.

There's vanilla lesbians on Grindr and acearos who have shown me love deeper than I thought possible and guydykes kissing girlfags and MtFtMtX elders and throuples that have so much affection that they just collectively parent babygays who got disowned.

Everybody is so beautiful! There is so much love! It is no wonder a cruel world has a vested interest in suppressing queerness when humanity is so expansive to us.

1 year ago

gender and sexuality is a fickle thing. sometimes two gay cisgender men will be dating for decades and one of them will turn out to be a transgender woman. a lot of times that won't work out but sometimes it will. her partner may still choose to identify as gay. She might even identify as gay, and they continue to be happily in love. Queer politics isn't going to get any better if you don't accept that situations like that happen every day.

1 year ago

rarepairs r so funny because you'll be part of the rarepair group n you'll be like. okay but look at all this stuff that makes them make sense and from the outside you look like youre holding a conspiracy board with dots and string n everyone is like ohh wow.. okay.... umm.. if u say so.... but when youre IN the rarepair group youre like no listen look. its obvious. look at this. look. there are famous ships with less substance than this

1 year ago

straight friend groups be like: *blonde girl* *chad* *the funny one* *kyle* *brunette girl* *frat boy*

gay friend groups be like: *catboy* *suicidal mentor figure* *a walking nervous breakdown* *murderous trans guy* *sadistic traumatized doctor* *killed 35 people* *autistic detective* *kenji*

1 year ago

Reminder that steam is not only "no longer supporting windows 7" ,. they will be actively disabling all clients on this OS by end of this year. No, you can't run offline. No, you can't run the games standalone. The official steam position is go fuck yourself. Their reasoning is due to intertwinement with some google features, which imo is just making it even fucking worse, because why the fuck do google need to be involved in me playing a game I bought in 2013? And why do they get to say I can no longer access this game?

If you want a workaround, hit up this but in future, just use GOG.

This isn't about the OS, so don't even start with me. Deliberately disabling access to items you've already purchased with no recourse is the highest order of bullshit.

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transdanganvhs - your average gay bsd fan
your average gay bsd fan

he/they/neos, enby, lesbian, danganronpa/bsd/genshin fan (i also like a couple of cartoons), i really like rarepairs

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