It’s never okay to lock a headmate away, never. They could be the worst person in the world, you still shouldn’t lock them away. There’s a difference between keeping headmates away from eachother and taking away someone’s privacy, free will and connections. You are abandoning that headmate, you are telling them that they are not worth helping, that they don’t deserve to get better. If talking it out doesn’t work for them there are other options, I’d recommend giving them their own space to speak their mind without threat of mistreatment for it, for starters. If someone really doesn’t want help don’t force it on them, just let them know it’s always an option and leave it at that. -Ange
The intimacy of “How did you know that?”
“because I know you.”
Love to all the ‘scary’ caretakers
Caretakers that are also persecutors
Caretakers that swear a lot
Caretakers that aren’t good with kids
Caretakers that look like something out of a horror movie
There’s no ‘right’ way to be a caretaker
median culture is always being the same guy but also not the guy who did that, and not the guy who was here a few minutes ago but also being that guy always.
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MAYBE I'M DEFECTIVE
OR MAYBE I'M DUMB
I'M SORRY, SO SORRY
FOR WHAT I'VE DONE
MAYBE I'M BAD NATURED
OR MAYBE I'M YOUNG
I'M SORRY, SO SORRY
FOR WHAT I'VE DONE
I'm so sorry I hurt you.. it feels like swallowing glass every time I think it was never your fault.
microdosing on listening to music by having the same line from a song playing in my head for days straight
Me at me: feeling violent today arnt we? you lil shit