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The beginning. (Part 1)

So my husband and I have probably been transitioning into this Stag & Vixen lifestyle for just about a year, and a year may seem like a long time, but there’s a lot of different emotions you have to feel and go threw, there’s also a lot of talks with your partner of wants and don't wants. For me there was a lot of coming to terms with not being ‘monogamous’, after being in a amazing 12 year relationship and knowing my long term what just going to be fucking him was just flipped, its been quite the experience thus far, even though I haven’t made the official move YET. 

Now, at the beginning there was a whole lot of ‘what if’s’ in my head, the biggest ‘what if’ was, what if he was allowing me to sleep with different men so he could maybe one day use it so he could sleep with other women. From what I’ve read from other Vixens, this seems to be a pretty common worry at the beginning. I mean, 12 years of marriage and we have an AMAZING sex life (there’s nights we can go for hours still), but maybe he was thinking what it be like with another woman after so long? This ‘what if’ was probably the longest part for me to get over, and this took a lot of conversations with not only my husband, but with other husbands of vixens\hotwives. Talking to other husbands was probably the most helpful, lots of them had different views and explained how they felt about it differently. Id report back to my husband about what I learned from other men, and he would ‘yay’ or ‘nay’ if that's how he felt, and add his opinion. Then one day after many reflections, it just clicked and I got it, I mean I still kinda worried, but I understood where he was coming from and I could push that ‘what if’ away.

The not being so ‘monogamous’ wasn't as bad or as long as a process because in these last couple years I had made a really awesome group of friends, and after getting to know how they all knew each other, turned out the were all in some form on lifestyle. One of my friends was in a poly marriage, another one was dating her husband, another just had open relationships, and one couple allowed them to see the same sex for needs that could not be met with the opposite gender. I learned a lot from them by how they felt about how they chose what kind of relationship they wanted with their partners, and just all there different out looks on what they feel relationships to be. But the common factor between them all, communication. Everyone of them was open from the beginning of their expectations of ‘wants’ and ‘don't wants’. Learning this communication for us wasn't easy at the beginning, we had a lot of bad talks before those bad talks turned into talks. What once felt wrong, bad, and uncomfortable to talk about, weren't anymore, and it actually brought us so much closer. And learning to communicate our sexual relationship actually helped up in our everyday life. 

Hope you enjoyed part 1 and stick around for part 2 <3

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