She Jus Like Me

teens want lana del rey, NOT jesus!!!!!!!!

a special and big thank you to an4 tumblr for being my safe place

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this is your reminder to detach. 

stop thinking about whether they’re thinking about you, what they’re saying about you (for better or for worse), or what you could’ve done better. leave it be. get up and get your shit together and focus all that delusion on working.  

you don’t have to be rory, cher, elle, blair, or hermione. you have to become the best version of yourself and spending all your time comparing yourself to people is not the way out of that. pick aspects of their mindset apart and combine it if you have to, but scrolling post through post on tumblr imagining the perfect enemies to lovers while you do nothing and rot in your room is not the way thats going to happen.   

you’re mad at that girl in your school who’s pretty, has a boyfriend but also gets the best grades on the planet? you’re mad at that boy who can buy his way into uni? too bad too fucking sad. i promise you they do not care now, and they won’t care ever. i wont either in 7 years, in my penthouse with my ivy league degree. i can promise you that. what next? 

you don’t need a thousand different expensive highlighters, you don’t need the perfect window w the perfect sunset, the way your hair looks does not matter, and the video you said you’d watch later doesn’t matter either. get through it, sobbing if you have to. don’t come crying to me when you’ve failed out of everything.  

start now. 

Listen up!

You see a post like this? Where OP might hurt/kill themselves? You hit that button that I circled

Hit that.

Click Suicide or Self-harm Concern

Yes.

Fill in the rest of it, and hit submit. The "content you reported" will fill itself in

Tumblr will follow up and help them.

Warning: this is only for mobile. If anyone knows how to do this for desktop, please add it!

This could SAVE SOMEONE'S LIFE.

YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE NOT TO REBLOG THIS.

I DON'T GIVE A FUCK IF IT DOESN'T GO WITH YOUR BLOG'S THEME.

And yes, REBLOG. Liking does no shit at all. This isn't ig.

You reblog, people see it. You don't, people don't see it. This shit's that simple.

This could save someone's life. It's not a joke.

fuck you

day 21 of my autumn studying challenge!:

• share a random fact you know.

honey badgers have very thick skin so even when they are caught by a predator, they still don’t get harmed easily and can break loose and they are also very fearless. i love them.

-> the pics are from yesterday but it was too late when i remembered to post so here we are! as you may know my tuesdays are very busy, i have three classes and therefore spend many hours in campus. yesterday i was there around eleven hours or something >:( i was tired but it was a fun day so i don’t mind that much. after the class we attend together, my friend and i spent some time together at my fav cafe, he was sketching and i was first planning my week and then reading lotr. and i finally finished the whole series yesterday!!! i am in love and i’m so glad i decided to read it this year. after my friend left, i had two classes left. and when i was finally done, i ate my dinner and went to my fav cafe again :] and studied there for a while before coming back to my dorm. as you can see lots of coffee helped me survive the day.

a special and big thank you to an4 tumblr for being my safe place