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J'ai l'impression qu'il y a aucune personnes aroace en france, je sais que non évidemment mais en une vingtaine d'années je n'en ai jamais rencontrées...
(À part un mec ace et une fille bi ace au lycée)
Honnêtement, je me sens seul.e à cause de la pression allonormative et amanormative en ce moment parce que je suis entouré.e que de personnes allos (et horny asf, elles me mettent mal à l'aise tous les jours 💀) dont beaucoup d'entre eux sont en couple.
Ça plus la télé et les réseaux sociaux, bref, internet et les représentations des allos dans la généralité. 😒
Ça m'étouffe et le fait de n'avoir aucune personne aroace dans mon entourage pour souffler de l'air frais et se comprendre sur ce sujet est frustrant...
Et tout ça me montre à quel point je veux tellement être en relation queer platonique avec une autre personne aroace encore plus que d'habitude...
Au moins en rencontrer une et être amis serait incroyable.
Anyway, j'avais besoin d'écrire pour extérioriser !
those aus where luffy is ten years younger
have a drink with him?
old meme alert
First time in Devildom vs "First Time" in Devildom for millionth time
aphobes, queer or not, are inherently insecure people; they can't imagine someone not wanting to date them because their self-worth is tied to their dating/sex life. it's a symptom of amatonormativity, which is ingrained so deeply in society. it's both sad and infuriating.
Episode 1117 screenshot redraw :) playing around with some new brushes!
The original!
Here’s also an extra doodle of sabo from the Apple Store while my friend was buying a new laptop lmao. Yes I know they have procreate on the Apple Store iPads, no I will not stop making these in goodnotes. ALSO WHEN WAS SOMEONE GOING TO TELL ME THAT GOODNOTES ADDED AN EYEDROPPER TOOL WHAT
Serious question and just to know :
Is there a country where arocace people can feel safe, are not discriminated against and are protected ?? Especially a law that protects us or etc ?
I know that anglophone aroace people talk about Denmark because there are apparently a lot of people on the aro and ace spectrums.
Just asking cause I'm fck tired of allo society every day since many years now and also tired of all arophobia et acephobia on social media in the first place. 💀
And in my sh*tty country it's always "lgbT", hOMo, bI and transgender. WHAT ABOUT THE D*MN + ??????? ALWAYS ABOUT ALLOS PP FCK DAMMIT. 💀
(Of course : generality =/= globality !!!! Cause I don't hate all allos pp obviously. Some are decents, respectfull , share same values as mine and infinity open mind.)
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My mood :
Second gif is for allos bigots, allo society and all their fck pathetic and disgusting sh*ts.
I hate you infinitely.
can yall stop making those "my ovaries" "oh god im ovulating" jokes about being horny about someone?? its so uncomfortable and weird and dysphoric to see, and ngl it's fucking sexist. its giving, "woman are more emotional because hormones"
we were supposed to be normalizing the menstrual cycle because its a normal bodily function- but instead we're sexualising it???
as a trans guy who has pretty aggressive sex-repulsed episodes, it's super weird and disconcerting to see people say shit like that when they could just... idk make a horny joke? for the longest time i had been at peace with having periods and stuff and it didn't really cause a lot of dysphoria, but this dumbass trend has amped it up to a thousand, and i feel terrible and weird and dirty for having a menstrual cycle as a dude all over again.
all aphobia is connected
allonormative people think that a “full” relationship needs platonic attraction, romantic attraction, and sexual attraction.
their view is challenged when someone’s idea of a full relationship doesnt include them all. it feels not full to them. so they think the person who lacks their ideal relationship isnt full. they assume they are broken.
this is a phenomenon i have seen over and over.
French / Introvert / AroAce/ Agender and Xenogender (I'm okay with all pronouns) / One Piece and KNB fan / Like mangas and animes + my comfort characters.
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