i'm just thinking abt how many providers i've had who heard my story abt psychiatric abuse + immediately individualized it. "oh, you're so smart + kind+ obviously sane! you didn't deserve that! i can't believe they gave you that diagnosis when you're obviously not like that! they shouldn't have treated u like that when all you did was xyz! they shouldn't have assumed you were crazy like that!"
there is always a third person haunting this interaction- the patient who does deserve that, who is "actually" that evilscary diagnosis, who did Have To be treated like that. if i want to soak up the affirmations of these providers, i must be careful to never become this third person. i must affirm myself by setting myself apart from her- i did not deserve to be treated like that because i am not like that.
i reject this. not only was i like that, she + everyone else like that deserve everything i deserve. they are my siblings + my friends + my lovers. i do not need to cut them out of me to believe i deserved better. i refuse to comfort myself through the lens of someone else's dehumanization. the tragedy is not that psychiatric violence was applied to someone who not insane enough to warrant it. the tragedy is the violence.
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i want you all to know that there is an artist (carmen papalia) who, after he started using a white cane, assembled a 12 foot long white cane and began using it in downtown vancouver. the length of the cane made it functionally useless as a device and the only purpose it served was making him an obstacle for sighted people. dare i say… 2019 goals
they are genuinely both so stupid. they both leaked each other's phone numbers trying t o be hee hee, Pete got Gabe's actual face tattooed on him as a part of a bet, they cannot be around each other without giggling like teenage girls... all of the cobrakkah......
In fandom spaces, they are affectionately referred to as the "One Braincell Trio", and for good reason. You have Wei Wuxian, the genius of his generation, Jiang Cheng, sect heir and grumpy purple grape, and Nie Huaisang, lazy layabout allergic to responsibility (but secretly smart as hell) - and when you put them together, you're lucky to find one braincell in working order. Whether it be cheating on tests, skipping school responsibilities, chasing wild chickens for food, or organizing parties with booze and porn, these boys are the ones you go to.
cannot emphasize enough
intellectually disabled people do often have strabismus, autism, and whatever the fuck else you're throwing them under the bus to make the ableds like you better for
intellectual disability is commonly comorbid with many disabilities, both physical and neurodevelopmental, to the point that it is considered a sign of them
you are not a better, more valuable disabled person than intellectually disabled people with the same disability as you
and someone assuming you're id is not a fucking insult to you
considering how many transmascs were legitimately way angrier BEFORE starting T and have since calmed down significantly have we perhaps considered that maybe the reason so many cis dudes are angry and aggressive isn't because of testosterone but maybe. like. personal issues. unmet needs. a social climate that teaches them that there are only like three acceptable social outlets for men max and one of them is being angry and shouting
mutuals and followers at large I'm glad you're alive and I hope it gets easier
"boy lesbians" you should kill yourself I think
Some resources for you:
Stone Butch Blues PDF
InQueery: The REAL Meaning of the Word "Butch"
Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and The Rest Of Us pdf
The Lesbian Community and FTM Transsexuals: Détente in the Butch/FTM Borderlands (2007)
Boydyke Meaning 1
Boydyke Meaning 2 (Lesboy)
Boydyke Use 3
“I Know What Butch Is” from Butch is a Noun
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Hey did y'all know that autistic people do not need to have or acquire some "special autism talent" to make up for their disability and that you shouldn't expect them to have/find one?