But The Closer You Are To People The More It's Like. Well To Some Extent Explaining Yourself IS Actually Part Of Constructing Intimacy? - Blog Posts

theory I think anyway- interpersonal i mean ftr i ALSO have various Conditions That Make Me Do Things That Bug People and i do tend to like. cite that as part of explaining and apologizing when people get Bugged so idk whether i even think this is a problem really or just normal but definitely i used to see a lot of posts that were like 'you gotta accept people's weirdnesses without any displeasure or curiosity!!' and i guess the thing for me is like. well particularly with strangers yeah. be polite. but the closer you are to people the more it's like. well to some extent explaining yourself IS actually part of constructing intimacy? like. how can you Know and Be Known without. actual knowledge. idk. suspect previous blogging environment may have. induced overscrupulous anxiety in me abt a totally normal* human reaction (*tho i never love 'normal' as a word to let yrself off the hook with bc like. bigotry is Normal. lots of things are normal and also bad) (so i guess really i just mean like. Not Inherently Problematic. nip reaction…)