Is It Just Me But More That I Connect With My Self In My Dr I Get So Many Messages/signs Of My S/os

And suddenly the words "I want to permashift" come out of my mouth which isn't weird because as a child I always wanted to escape

Why are you afraid of shifting and how is it stopping you from success

This post is all about finding what are your struggles with shifting and fear and how to overcome it

Why This Happens

1. Fear of the Unknown: Shifting involves stepping into a completely new reality, and the mind can find that overwhelming. Even though you consciously want to shift, your mind might be resisting because it’s unsure what will happen or how you'll feel after the shift. (Your mind can't stop you from shifting but it helpful to overcome this)

2. Fear of Failure: While you’ve maybe built a mindset that "shifting is easy," there might still be a lingering fear of what happens if it doesn’t work. This can lead to procrastination as a way to avoid facing potential disappointment.

3. Attachment to Your Current Reality: Even if you consciously want to let go of this reality, your mind might still hold on to certain attachments, routines, or responsibilities, making it harder to fully release and surrender.

4. Perfectionism: You might feel that the conditions for shifting need to be "perfect" (e.g., the right time, mood, or setting). This can cause you to delay the attempt, thinking, "I’ll do it tomorrow when I feel more ready."

5. Energy Imbalance: Mental and emotional energy play a big role in shifting. If you're mentally drained from school/job or other activities, it can be harder to find the focus and motivation to try.

Advice to Overcome This

1. Address the Fear Directly:

Take a moment to reflect on why you might feel scared. Is it fear of failure, success, or the unknown? Journaling about these feelings can help bring clarity and reduce their intensity.

Remind yourself that shifting is safe and that you’re always in control. You can come back to your current reality whenever you choose.

2. Break the Cycle of Procrastination:

Commit to small steps instead of aiming for the perfect shifting session. For example, one night, just focus on relaxing and visualizing your desired reality for 5-10 minutes without the pressure of fully shifting.

Set a consistent time for your shifting practice, even if it’s only 15 minutes a day.

3. Ease Into Letting Go:

Practice mindfulness or meditation to train your mind to release attachment to this reality. Grounding yourself in the present moment can make it easier to let go when the time comes.

Try visualization exercises throughout the day. Imagine yourself briefly in your desired reality during small breaks, which can make the idea of shifting feel more familiar and less daunting.

4. Shift Your Perspective on "Failure":

Remember, every attempt is progress. Each time builds your connection to your desired reality and strengthens your mental state.

Celebrate small wins, like getting into a relaxed state or feeling closer to your desired reality, instead of only focusing on whether you shifted.

5. Create a Comforting Routine:

Build a ritual around your shifting attempts that feels calming and enjoyable. For example, use soothing music, light candles, or repeat affirmations that help you feel safe and confident.

Use self-reassurance phrases like, “I am in control, and shifting will happen at the right time for me.”

6. Reframe "It’s Too Late" Thoughts:

Remind yourself that there’s no "right" time to shift. You can attempt shifting whenever you feel ready, whether it’s day or night.

Think of shifting as a natural, ongoing process rather than a single, all-or-nothing event. This can help reduce pressure and make it feel more approachable.

Letting Go of the Pressure

It's helpful to approach shifting with curiosity and excitement rather than pressure. The more you view it as a natural and fluid process, the easier it can become to allow yourself to fully engage. Instead of thinking, "I have to shift tonight," try shifting your mindset to, "I’m exploring this tonight, and whatever happens is okay."

Mantra to Try

When you feel scared or hesitant, try repeating: "I trust the process. I am safe, I am ready, and I am capable of shifting when the time is right."

A little remember that it most important to find what works for you.

You truly know the feeling of freedom when you become a shifter, I thought before I knew what freedom felt like but I was so wrong

How you are applying logic to shifting and why you should stop it

Examples of Applying Logic to Shifting:

1. Doubting the Process:

Thinking, "This can't work because it's not scientifically proven."

2. Overthinking Methods:

Debating which method is "best" or trying to analyze why certain methods work/ don't work.

3. Expecting Immediate Results:

Thinking, "If I don’t shift in X amount of time, it’s not real."

Focus on enjoying the outcome rather than the process.

4. Analyzing Your Feelings Too Much:

Thinking, "Am I feeling detached enough? Did I do the visualization correctly?"

Trust your intuition. If you feel ready or connected, that’s enough. And even if you don't as long as you want it, it enough.

5. Questioning Your Signs:

Seeing signs or synchronicities and thinking, "Is this just coincidence?"

Trust that the universe communicates in unique ways. Accept signs without overanalyzing their meaning. Coincidences don't exist.

How to Stop Applying Logic:

Approach shifting with the openness.

Focus on Feelings, Not Thoughts:

Ground yourself in emotions or sensations instead of analyzing your thoughts. For example, focus on the excitement or calm you feel about your desired reality.

Use Affirmation

Repeat phrases like, "I trust the process," or "Shifting is natural for me." This helps quiet doubts.

Meditate or Use Flow States:

Meditation can help you let go of overthinking. Activities that put you in a flow state—like drawing, daydreaming, or listening to music—can also help.

By practicing these techniques, you'll probably gradually get yourself to let go of logic and embrace the intuitive side of shifting.

What made me post this lmao

Stop questioning how you are doing it and if you are doing it right and just do it. There's no universal rules that actually matter, everything you read here is advice. Manifesting and shifting is something natural, don't overcomplicate it and just do it.

What the fuck is casual Im shifting reality's for you

Scripting that I can’t gain unwanted weight and that I can eat as much as I want knowing that Hogwarts food is gonna be bussin

SCENARIOS FOR YOU

~Going to claw machines store together

~Going to hello kitty cafes

~Going to cafes with animals

~Going to the beach or a river together and finding two rocks which make a perfect heart

~Making jewellery together

~Going to park and befriending random squirrels or birds together

~Going to see a Jaws movies during the night, in the ocean

~Going to drive in movies

~Going to art gallery and find paintings that reminds of them or looks like you/them

~You both not being able to fall asleep so you guys sneak in kitchen together to make cookies or something

~Going to haunted houses together too see who gets scared first & the loser has to buy the other one ice cream

~Going to the a masked ball together with randomly selected partners and not realising you are each others partners till the end of the night

~Playing fights till y'all end up on the floor and realised you guys are very close to each other

~First time trying a sport together like rock climbing or skiing

~Randomly getting lost and accidentally finding a place that going to be yours guys spot

~Randomly "rent" a pet together and take care of it for a day

~Making slime together

~Getting caught in storm together and running towards a nearest bridge or building and kissing while you are both drenched in rain

~Going to a beach party and getting drunk so much that you both fall asleep in a heart shaped bed float and waking up together at sun rise

~Hanging out with your friends on top of a building (maybe in the club or party) waiting for fireworks and your friends on purpose leaving you alone with your s/o because they know you two have something going on, and then seeing the fireworks together

~Going to a movie theater pretty late and being the only ones, when you come out there's a playground (the ones with cool slides and stuff) outside and playing around and making a core memorie

~Being left to babysit a toddler together (could be very fun or go very wrong)

~Going on boat or helicopter rides across big citys

~Waking up to a snow morning and hurrying outside, making it your guys challenge for the day to make the biggest snow men possible

~Going to a trip in the same hotel together and randomly going to lobby late in night because you can't sleep, only to see them there and you guys both order hot chocolate and have fun

~Being cold and saying that to your friends and random person offers your their jacket just for your s/o to come behind you and wrap you in their jacket

~Your family showing them your baby pictures and making you embarrassed, but your s/o only looks at you with adoration

~During summer your s/o makes it their goal to take pictures of you and makes a album by the end of the summer. Oh and they aslo wrote letters or events that happened that day behind every picture.

~Being around a campfire and sitting down and just look to the side for a second only to see your s/o staring lovingly at you

~Them surprising you with a tattoo that somehow relates to you (favourite flowers, animal...)

~Being on ferris wheel together and getting stuck on the top for a couple minutes

~Them being completely wasted, so much their friends had to drop them off at your place because they couldn't stop talking about you

~Playing hide and seek with you friends and your s/o pulling you with them in their hiding space

~Going to play with laser guns and theres different teams and you s/o making sure you are in theirs/protecting you the every round

~Them baying silly pijamas for your guys sleep over because they wanted to match with you

~Them insisting to make a short movie or video blogs of your guys trips together and filming everything so they can watch it when you both get old or for your future children

~Midnight drives while blasting music and getting food

~Going to race cars together to drive and race (obviously)

~Going together to shop for clothes for you pet in baby section and making outfits

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Shifting bursts anti shifters bubbles, this is the reason why instead of just ignoring it they need to leave hateful comments and such. Imagine you build your whole life learning these rules and living your life by them and then something like shifting comes which challenges your every belief practically. It hard to comprehend and believe for some people and they don't like it.

My s/os in my dr <3